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So there's this guy in my drama class that just started texting me out of nowhere a few days ago. i'm not really interested in him, but he started sending off weird signals. We then had the following Facebook conversation and i have no idea what to make of it. Was he coming on to me?? I think he outed himself to me... but i can't be sure

what do you guys think???

 

9:11pm Him : so wat doing?

 

9:11pm Me: facebooking.. nuthin special…my life is sooo exciting

 

9:13pm Him: hahha i can tell deeeply lol so howd u like my awesome drama thing

 

9:14pm Me: it was good... way better than mine

 

9:16pm Him: lol no u acted very well, u were definitely the best in your group and hey it was funny

 

9:16pm Me: thanx. i tried

 

9:17pm Him: and thats all that matters....

 

9:17pm Me: not really…passing is what matters

 

*this is the important bit

 

9:18pm Him: lol for u it does, because ur you hahah so hows life got a girlfriend atm or bf ?

 

9:19pm Me: I’m single…why would i have a bf?

 

9:20pm Him: oooooooh SINGLE!!!!! no reason just write it there just in case u never know?

 

9:20pm Me: lol

 

9:21pm Him: ohhh weellll so who do u like?? lol i ask the big questions hahaha

 

9:22pm Me: i dont like anyone right now. Do you have a gf?

 

9:24pm Him: no i don’t I’m single and I’m into boys!

 

9:28pm Me: 4 real?

 

9:28pm Him: yeah all that way

 

9:29pm Me: ok then…..I’m not

 

9:29pm Him: really bummer

 

9:30pm Me: sorry 2 disappoint

 

9:32pm Him: nah im jolking lol just pulling ur leg

 

9:33pm Me: lol

 

9:33pm Him: lol u were probly like okay i need to leave now lol

 

9:34pm Me: not really... I’m pretty open minded

i dnt judge ppl like that

 

EDIT: i should probably mention the reason why i didn't tell him that i'm gay is because im in the closet. its better to be safe than sorry.

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He was making a move to see if you were gay or not. When you said you weren't he retracted what he said to be safe, which means he's probably also in the closet. Put yourself in his shoes. If you were in the same position and you didn't know a guy's orientation it would be viable to use a similar tactic.

 

Shame you're not into him. I wish this would happen to me more often.

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Sounds like he was being pretty clear. Why did you lie to him??? You wouldn't have to go out with him if you told him you're gay. It might be valuable to have a friendship with another gay guy.

 

Also, if he's this unconfident about himself, he could use a friend, and probably, so could you

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Sounds like he was being pretty clear. Why did you lie to him??? You wouldn't have to go out with him if you told him you're gay. It might be valuable to have a friendship with another gay guy.

 

because i am insecure and i suck at reading people. i feel really terrible, but you have to understand that i'm in a vulnerable position.

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because i am insecure and i suck at reading people. i feel really terrible, but you have to understand that i'm in a vulnerable position.

 

Well, don't feel bad- there's no use crying over spilt milk, as they say. Just promise yourself to seize the opportunity if it comes up again.

 

If you're chatting with him again you might consider asking why he has a girlfriend if he's into boys.

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uhhh, pianoguy, u shudn't make people feel bad about doing something. it's his choice if, when a next opportunity comes, he decides to take it or to leave it. he can always go on facebook again and talk to the other dude. or hang out at school. and plus, if he did say he was gay, everyone he knows on facebook could read it and stuff like that, you have to admit, it is a big risk. and what if the guy was actually joking? he probably wasn't.. not sure, depend on how he acts during school etc. but if he was actually joking and mr norway decided to out himself, it would be pretty hard to cover that up.

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