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You will get over it.

 

This is for reals. I'm the guy that was on the verge of giving up on life and breaking NC once a week for 6 months straight. I'm the guy that apologized to the girl that left him for another guy. I'm the guy that begged and pleaded with a girl to stay when she left me during hard times - losing job and citizenship. I'm the guy that she left a month before the LSAT exam.

 

I'm the guy that used to make multiple threads per day just to get it out of my system, just out of sheer desperation.

 

I kept this message short for a reason; it doesn't really matter anymore because I'm over it. You will too. Sure it still hurts thinking about it at times, but it's ovaaaa~ haha

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Yes I am over it too. I was hurting and so depressed after the breakup. I felt like dying but now....I am happy weee.. I thought I would never get over him. I shamed myself by going to his house and begged him. He threw me out.

 

I am over it. It is true that at first...it hurts so much but.....you will get over it..with time. You guys can do it.

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Excellent! In so many ways, time does heal....now if we can just keep from making the same mistakes again (there's no guarantee that we won't have our hearts broken again...hence my year and a half long exit from ENA...after I got over the ex that brought me here...and now a new ex has brought me back...but hopefully I'm a bit smarter this time)! This stuff is not forever people...UCLAmike...keep on doing what's working!

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I should say im mostly ok to the guys that need hope

 

Im just a little down as i just found this news out, was a bit of a ego hit more than anything! It does get ALOT better, 90% of the time im ok, just occaionally when i reminis(spl!) it feels raw again.

 

But i stress it isnt that often now! Hence the first time ive posted here for months! I do feel a break from here does you good though, i got to a point i was obsessed with break up stories lol!

 

P.S I still sometimes do crazy * * * * , it happens, suck it up, dont blame yourself, blame your emotions, and try to not do it again! (although you will lol!)

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Don't get me wrong people, breaking up does damage your soul significantly. I never imagined I'd be hurt this much. I went through so many bad relapses and thought I was turning insane and chronically depressed.

 

However, I kept telling myself that I have to fight these irrational thoughts and feelings because I was good before I met her and during. I knew it had to do with the break up.

 

I held on. But I didn't just hang on, that did nothing for me. I had to actively go out and meet new people, do things, and talk about it. Get good advice and you realize my ex was a real B!!!

 

I still get nasty feelings and relapses but it's not as intense and it doesn't last as long. It's manageable. In time, none of this will matter at all. Not even a little.

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