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Hi I've been seeing a girl for just over 2 weeks, (first Girlfriend so I'm new to it) but I feel that when I'm away from her I think is she that really intrested in me, am I just being led on she might be to polite to let me down. I always feel I'm the first one to always make contact with her so if she was intrested in me she might contact me first..

 

I've asked her if she likes me enough to keep on seeing me she replys "yes" I've not contacted her for over a day and 1/2 now and not heard from her I thought she might have txt me or something... I just want to know if I should be moving on or hanging around... I'm clueless at dating inexpericenced

 

I'm thinking she might be glad to not hear from me as she may not be intrested but to afraid to let me down.

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i don't see where she is your gf, but rather just someone you are dating. have you had the exclusive talk to where you both agreed on that label? if not, she's not your gf.

 

anyways, if you don't feel she is putting in her interest because she doesn't contact you first, i'd start getting more distant and see if she does call you wondering what's going on. and if she asks, i'd tell her that you aren't feeling it on her end. if she is into you, she will start making more effort.

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I agree with Ghost but also think you should not be so attached early on. Asking her if she likes you? That just screams needy. Cut that stuff out and she will come to you. Adopt a busier/productive lifestyle that you enjoy away from her. You seem young from what I can tell? This is the time for you to learn about relationships and people in general. Don't sweat it so much. Just enjoy the ride and take in a s much as possible.

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You shouldnt expect anything from someone until at least a solid month of dating and once you guys have agreed to be exclusive. As far as shes concerned you guys are just seeing each other and owes you nothing at this point. Also, try not to box her in too much in the beginning as you might scare her off.

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I agree with Ghost but also think you should not be so attached early on. Asking her if she likes you? That just screams needy. Cut that stuff out and she will come to you. Adopt a busier/productive lifestyle that you enjoy away from her. You seem young from what I can tell? This is the time for you to learn about relationships and people in general. Don't sweat it so much. Just enjoy the ride and take in a s much as possible.

 

 

I agree.

 

You sound like a really nice guy, so don't push it too much. I know you don't think you did anything wrong by asking her how she feels about you so early on, but honestly, it can be a little overwhelming when a guy jumps into it so quick.

 

As a girl, I don't really play the whole "dating game", but I certainly don't like it when the guy's doing ALL the work. It's not as interesting when he makes himself 100% available. It makes the girl feel like she shouldn't put any effort, cuz she knows you're gonna be there either way.

 

I'd say back off just a bit. If she really does like you, she'll come around. If she doesn't come around within the next few days, then move on--don't even bother contacting her.

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Okay I don't think you should give up that easily. If she said she's interested then I imagine she is... no one lies and keeps someone hanging on intentionally.

 

As the girl, I often take a bit of a backseat so as not to come accross "too" eager.. I've been told before to do this by guys and girls... Sure if she really likes you she may contact you, but trust me us girls have been socialised to let the guy lead at least initially.

 

Ammy

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