enchanted771 Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 So, i saw different bj positions off this website i want to try is called plumber and another one face lol. any tips how to do without gagging? lol Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 I think with any bj position where the guy is thrusting it's good to use your hands as well and prevent him from "jabbing" into the back of your throat. I tried that position "the fusion" recently... too hard to enjoy. (cowgirl) Link to comment
servedcold Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 Some of those look made up, the ones you mention even look dangerous, or at the very least, try with caution only with someone you know and trust implicitly. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted June 10, 2009 Author Share Posted June 10, 2009 I am not familiar with that position. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 That is an interesting website, now only if I had a gf to experience it with. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 Some of those look made up, the ones you mention even look dangerous, or at the very least, try with caution only with someone you know and trust implicitly. Lol, yea I'm not sure I personally want to try standing 69.. What if he wants to climax and isn't able to hold me up. :splat: Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted June 10, 2009 Author Share Posted June 10, 2009 After seeing the comments guys made about those positions, I can promise myself I will never ever do that. It just seems so degrading to me and the way guys see it is degrading too. Whatever though, maybe I'm just being insecure, it just seems like most guys have degrading thoughts about women who give bjs, especially ones when their shoving their "members" into girls' mouths listening to them gag. its not something i would do all the time or even with just anyone. but with someone i care about and trust would never hurt me wouldnt mind experimenting a little. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 its not something i would do all the time or even with just anyone. but with someone i care about and trust would never hurt me wouldnt mind experimenting a little. Thomas Edison said genuis was 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 maybe you guys can text each other while doing this stuff Link to comment
CBG Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 After seeing the comments guys made about those positions, I can promise myself I will never ever do that. It just seems so degrading to me and the way guys see it is degrading too. Whatever though, maybe I'm just being insecure, it just seems like most guys have degrading thoughts about women who give bjs, especially ones when their shoving their "members" into girls' mouths listening to them gag. That is entirely relative and honestly seems like a pretty narrow point of view to me. It's true some of the time, but hardly worthy of a generalization. Anytime you start basing an act on how half of the population sees it, you are making far too simple a generalization. Is it any more degrading than sitting on a guy's face? Link to comment
servedcold Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Sure, guys will be guys with the locker room talk, but there's nothing inherently degrading about any sex act two people engage in consensually. It's just sex after all, not slavery, racism or living in a concentration camp, which are the kinds of things I think of when the term "degrading" comes up. Link to comment
decourcy7 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I always get slack when I say this but bj's do nothing for me. I have had women even try to force me to like it. I have had some pretty good bj's too. I dont see it as degrading or anything like that, I would rather give oral than receive it. Hell, I would rather give oral than have sex sometimes. I think that there is no better tribute a man could pay a woman than going down on her. Only one that I love by the way and have been with for a while anyway. So dont give me any bj positions, let me show you some eating out positions!! Link to comment
Knotty Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 It's hard to go anywhere without hearing some guy tell his buddy about how his girlfriend was choking on his * * * * last night. And guys talk that way about regular intercourse too, so you must think regular sex is degrading also. Link to comment
retired1 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 And guys talk that way about regular intercourse too, so you must think regular sex is degrading also. Not all guys talk like that. Some of us were raised not to talk about the women we're with like that. Link to comment
Knotty Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Not all guys talk like that. Some of us were raised not to talk about the women we're with like that. I was raised the same way, but I was addressing MissMichelle's statement where she thought that a lot of guys talked like. I just pointed out that the guys that talk about oral sex like that probably talk about intercourse in a crude way also. Link to comment
arcadefire Posted June 12, 2009 Share Posted June 12, 2009 If I'm in bed with someone who believes oral sex is degrading, I'm out of that bed immediately. I view it as another way of showing love, much like making love is too. Link to comment
PsychGirly Posted June 12, 2009 Share Posted June 12, 2009 As far as gagging goes, aside from relaxing your muscles, don't eat for at least a couple of hours before. Believe it or not, your gag reflex is so much more sensitive if you recently ate (from my experience). Also, there's nothing wrong with the gag REFLEX. If you actually do gaggg, then that's a problem, but if your reflex kicks in a few times during the bj, there's nothing wrong with that. Guys actually like that, if I'm not mistaken, cuz your throat tightens up, which feels awesome (not that I'd know loll). Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted June 13, 2009 Author Share Posted June 13, 2009 Lol he actually got turned on when i talked about choking on his manhood lol Link to comment
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