summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 or thought that clicked in your mind that gave you the strength to walk away from someone for good? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 or thought that clicked in your mind that gave you the strength to walk away from someone for good? When my ex husband called me a baby killer.. Link to comment
thathoopla Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 It was just recently. I just wrote about it. What clicked is that I was lied to for a good part of our relationship. Not only that, but I was made to sound like I was the crazy one, when my suspicions were correct all along. I only find this out after a year. Plus, the fact that he didn't really know he wanted ME, after so long. I can't be with someone like that. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 The time he told me that if I hadn't been there that night he would have gone to the brothel with his friend. He did a lot of horrible things to me, but that topped them off. I wasn't going to stick around for that crap. Link to comment
Dubi Doo Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 or thought that clicked in your mind that gave you the strength to walk away from someone for good? When I officially caught her in a lie; when I officially realized she is a drama fiend; when I officially felt sick of her. When all of that was official, I was officially done with her.=/ Link to comment
summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 When my ex husband called me a baby killer.. wow! Why did he call you that? Was this the one with the kids? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 wow! Why did he call you that? Was this the one with the kids? When I was pregnant with my son, the doctors confirmed that my son would not live so I told the doctors not to perform any heroic measures and he passed an hour after birth. This was 20 years ago. He said it to be cruel, so I left him. Link to comment
summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 When I was pregnant with my son, the doctors confirmed that my son would not live so I told the doctors not to perform any heroic measures and he passed an hour after birth. This was 20 years ago. He said it to be cruel, so I left him. that's so sad. Sorry you lost a child, but I think you made the right choice. Your ex may have not been mature enough to handle that Link to comment
metrogirl Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 that's so sad. Sorry you lost a child, but I think you made the right choice. Your ex may have not been mature enough to handle that Thank you..... P.S. Good to see you again... Link to comment
COtuner Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 or thought that clicked in your mind that gave you the strength to walk away from someone for good? Thought, "Why in hell am I standing here letting him lecture me like I'm some little kid? This is stupid and I don't have to put up with this". Link to comment
summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 Thank you..... P.S. Good to see you again... thanks How is your recent ex? Still see him at work? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 When my ex started seeing his ex girlfriend, which I suspected but, couldn't prove, told me that "it was all my imagination." She ended up pregnant with his child, he later dumped her, and begged me to go back to him. I told him that "he made his bed, now he can sleep in it." 18 years of child support for 15 minutes of fun...too little, too late. Link to comment
summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 When my ex started seeing his ex girlfriend, which I suspected but, couldn't prove, told me that "it was all my imagination." She ended up pregnant with his child, he later dumped her, and begged me to go back to him. I told him that "he made his bed, now he can sleep in it." 18 years of child support for 15 minutes of fun...too little, too late. ugh, that's a big one Link to comment
Qut81 Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 When my ex started seeing his ex girlfriend, which I suspected but, couldn't prove, told me that "it was all my imagination." She ended up pregnant with his child, he later dumped her, and begged me to go back to him. I told him that "he made his bed, now he can sleep in it." 18 years of child support for 15 minutes of fun...too little, too late. *sick to stomach* sometimes reading all of this stuff makes me not want to be in a relationship ever again. Op, Im still working on this, but I think Im done this time. He called me the "stupidest * * * * * hes ever met" and I have all these probs. However, he fails to realize anything hes ever done wrong, everything is my fault. So yea, thats what made me walk away, for the millionth time. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 ugh, that's a big one I've moved on, and I'm doing fine. Isn't it funny, how they don't realize that the cost of thinking with the wrong body part can be quite expensive? #-o Link to comment
thathoopla Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 When my ex started seeing his ex girlfriend, which I suspected but, couldn't prove, told me that "it was all my imagination." She ended up pregnant with his child, he later dumped her, and begged me to go back to him. I told him that "he made his bed, now he can sleep in it." 18 years of child support for 15 minutes of fun...too little, too late. That's the worst part about someone lying to you! Link to comment
dreamwarrior Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 When I looked in the mirror and didn't see myself anymore ! Link to comment
heatspreader Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 When she sent me a picture of her with another guy I took that as a cue to move on. Link to comment
ellandroader Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 When I felt I was putting more into "us", and she couldn't even keep her word when it came to a phonecall. (LDR) Or when she told me I wasn't man enough. Perhaps also when I was told that no matter what I do, I had to be approved by somebody outside the relationship. It felt that no matter what I did (and I was a very good boyfriend), it wouldn't count. The biggest thing was seeing my friends and family sit me down, and tell me they were worried for my health, even if she wasn't. But I made the choice to walk away and I somtimes wonder where the strength came from....I think it came from my unwillingness to be treated like a toy. Link to comment
summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 *sick to stomach* sometimes reading all of this stuff makes me not want to be in a relationship ever again. Op, Im still working on this, but I think Im done this time. He called me the "stupidest * * * * * hes ever met" and I have all these probs. However, he fails to realize anything hes ever done wrong, everything is my fault. So yea, thats what made me walk away, for the millionth time. sounds like me to a "t" Link to comment
summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 When I felt I was putting more into "us", and she couldn't even keep her word when it came to a phonecall. (LDR) Or when she told me I wasn't man enough. Perhaps also when I was told that no matter what I do, I had to be approved by somebody outside the relationship. It felt that no matter what I did (and I was a very good boyfriend), it wouldn't count. The biggest thing was seeing my friends and family sit me down, and tell me they were worried for my health, even if she wasn't. But I made the choice to walk away and I somtimes wonder where the strength came from....I think it came from my unwillingness to be treated like a toy. that's awesome. You have good friends and family Link to comment
shes2smart Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 This set of what I thought were "throwaway" lines when I was writing about my alcoholic ex in my journal: "I met (the alcoholic) # years ago this week. I have spent half the time I have known him trying to remove him from my life. I don't think I want to be sitting here next year writing, 'I met (the alcoholic) #+1 years ago this week. I have spent 2/3 of the time I have known him trying to remove him from my life.'" Link to comment
summerpeach Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 This set of what I thought were "throwaway" lines when I was writing about my alcoholic ex in my journal: "I met (the alcoholic) # years ago this week. I have spent half the time I have known him trying to remove him from my life. I don't think I want to be sitting here next year writing, 'I met (the alcoholic) #+1 years ago this week. I have spent 2/3 of the time I have known him trying to remove him from my life.'" WOW!!!!!!!!!!! I got goosebumps! Link to comment
Effervescent Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 15 minutes ago, when I saw the e-mail I sent him deleted and unread instantly upon receipt (it wasn't even about us). I knew that it was over. The person I loved is dead. I am alone again, so it's time to rebuild stronger, better and definitely hotter, than before. I walked away almost three weeks ago, but I now I know it's for good and I can give up all hopes of reconciliation in the future. Now, all I need to figure out is how to stop my eyes from leaking. Link to comment
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