Possible resurgence, or no? Please read...

[TraneX007]

Sorry, I know this is gonna be long but I want to hear some of your guys opinions and this is the most important thing in my life right now so Id really appreciate it if you read it and responded.

 

I'm 16 and a Junior in HS, and I first met this girl who I liked who is a sophomore, about 4 months ago. She knew I liked her, and we started talking and hanging out. I became friends with all of her friends, but me and Christina were still only friends, no hooking up, or anything like that. Time went by, and I found out through mutual friends that she would hook up with me, although we never ever talked about it to each other, and she didnt know that I knew she wanted to. I of course was very happy, and had a few chances, but it never really happened, maybe because we are both inexperienced and never made a move. Time continued moving on, and finally things started getting weird. We were losing the chemistry that we once had, even though I still liked her. It would sometimes be a struggle to plan things to do at night, and it would often result in tension in a sense. we started talking a bit less. One night we decided to take our conversation to a deeper level online, but not bcause things were going well, its bcause they were declining and we had to say where we were, and this is the first time we talked about anything involving this. She says that she feels a loss of chemistry, and for now wants to be friends because even though she thinks im great and attractive, she doesnt like love me right now and she cant control how she feels. she said she thought that there might of something good between us back a bit, but now shes not sure. she said she wanted to stay as friends because she didnt want things to get weird because she likes hanging out wth me and doesnt really want to enter that right now, but isnt sure about the future. A few days later, i emailed her saying give me another chance, but if u dont want to then this is it, i can move on. she basically said the same things, saying how can i give us another chance if we dont have chemistry and we dont even talk that much anymore. i accpeted it, not knowing what to do. Alot of time has gone by, weeks, maybe months, and it seems to her as if i have moved on. We talk occasionally, although she knows that i ignore her because it is very hard for me to be friends with her if i want to move on. I dont think she likes it, but she accepts it and lives her life as well. Well recently, we broke the streak of not talking and had a really really good conversation online. Things felt so new again since we hadnt talked in so long, and i really missed her, we had so much to talk about, and my strong feelings came right back up. she was so nice and cute, and the thing is she never turned me down she said she just wasnt sure at the time. if this was any other girl id be long out of it, but i have such strong feelings for this girl that you couldnt possibly imagine, i think about her all day, and it might be love. should i start talking to her more, maybe hoping things will be better and new again, become friends and enter her life once again, and then maybe a romance will blossom? should i talk to her about this? should i steer cleer and move on? that will be so hard, and i see no real reason to do it bcause we really l ike each other, even if she likes me only in a friend sense as of now. What do y ou think i should do, keeping in mind that i really truly care for her, i just dont show it. Thanks so much in advance

 

Doug

[TearsofaDragon20]

Doug the best thing you can do is let her know what you feel. if you dont let her know how you feel towards her then you may never be able to let her know and she may think you may not like her in that sense. but sit down and talk to her and open up. the worst thing to do is not letting her know what you feel towards her. then if that happens she wont want to have that relationship type basis that you may want. keep it nice and in depth convo. and dont say something that may backfire on you. But if she feels the same way about you as you do for her, then you guys might be on your way of a happy relationship. well let me know what you think.

 

Good Luck.

[TraneX007]

But I am quite sure if I tell her that then she will say the same thing that she said back then bcause nothing has really changed, and also itll be embarrassing bcause itll seem like i'm hung up on her. I want to know if I should get close to her again and get back into her life because there might be a chance something might happen, or if i should just move on.