Zka0954 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Ok so I met this girl at a party and we exchanged talked just a lil just before it ended(just a little it was a the very end of the party lol). I thought she was really cute. She's best friends with one of my chick friends. I saw her on Facebook the other day and added her. Then one day, to break the ice(and cuz I hate ppl who have "friends" on their fbook) I msg'd her. We talked a bit but then I had to go to kick-boxing. So i've seen her in the hallway a couple of times and waved(and she's waved back) but I was always rushing to class so we really haven't talked that much in person. So the other day I decided to chat with her on fbook again and we joked around and stuff but then at the end I asked for her number because she doesn't get on fbook that often. So would it be creeepy if I called her since we havent talked that much?? It would be kinda akward. Is it more attracting to call a girl first or txt? Lol I know i'm fretting over nothing but i'm new to looking for gf so please help! Link to comment
erase this face Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 She gave you her number, so that means she's okay with you calling. Call, don't text. Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 Haha thnx. But two contradicting opinions hmmmm lol more opinions? Link to comment
ponyboy Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Honestly either would be fine, even if you text her first, just dont let texting be the only way you communicate with her or shell have a relationship with her phone, and not you lol. Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 2-Txt 1-Call and 1-Nuetral lol Link to comment
Sync Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Haha, I was a about to post the exact same thread with just a few little different circumstance. I think you should text her but then talk to her at school, maybe about something that you find you have in common when you text her? Now I don't want to start a new thread but my question will be quick, so i have a crush on this one girl and I was planning on making a move but i am totally new to all this and had no idea how to ask her out, so i had my phone out and was talking with my buddie and she comes up to say hi and all and is like "ohh, I didn't know you had a phone!" then she took my phone and put her number in it. So I am think I should start texting her cause I find the hardest part about talking to her is talking about something that we are both interested in that I can really talk about for a while. So you think texting in my situation should be good as long as I talk with her as well and maybe go hang out? Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 Haha ok it's cool i'll allow to use my thread lol. Just dont forget bout my question to! Link to comment
Sync Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 I prefer the texting method as It may be awkward on the phone especially if you run out of things to day, also I am not a phone person, I cant stand being on the phone if its not for planning something, Im sure a lot of people have a differing view of the phone though. Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 Yeah true true. But i've heard it's more attractive if a guy just calls. So I ws wondering if i'd make a better if I just called. Link to comment
Raistlin Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 I would call. You don't have to make the conversation long or complicated. Call, chat her up for a moment and try to make her laugh, then invite her to something you may already be doing. The worst she can say is no. Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 3-txt 2-call 1-nuetral hmmm leaning towards txting right now Link to comment
coyote1980 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Why do guys think texting is even an option for asking out? I guess it's ok if you are in college or fresh outa college. it's not an ok thing for grownup boys. Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 28, 2009 Author Share Posted May 28, 2009 Well i'm not planning on asking her out just yet. And i'm in college. Link to comment
coyote1980 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 Well i'm not planning on asking her out just yet. And i'm in college. well, then i say texting is ok, but i personally give more points if a guy calls. Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 29, 2009 Author Share Posted May 29, 2009 Thnx for all the replies! I just decided to call and all worked out fine! Yup I is happy lol. Link to comment
hockeyplaya44 Posted May 29, 2009 Share Posted May 29, 2009 CALL CALL CALL. This is a no brainer. Link to comment
dr_styles Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 For asking out, easily calling, (imo). Is it just me or is this like a classic Gen-Y type vs old style type thing? Don't get me wrong, I'm technically Gen-Y but not much like one haha. That said, after I got/swapped numbers with a girl near the end of our first "date"-or-hangout, I did try and call her late the next day and she didn't pick up ... but texted me back. Link to comment
Casey13 Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 Text first, make sure you didnt catch her at a bad time and if you guys are into exchanging texts simply say if she would mind if you gave her a call instead Link to comment
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