How to I find my summer fling?

[wazza]

I'm in the city until the end of august, been here a week already, haven't really had the opportunity to meet any girls yet, and recently my group of friends here at home have been closing themselves and therefore each other off from meeting new people. My only options seem to be meeting girls at bars when I go out with my friends (which is not looking like a possibility cause they never go out anymore) and online dating (which I'd rather not rely on). I'm gonna be busy with an internship for a lot of the summer too, and I doubt I'll meet anyone through that.

 

I know this sounds really needy but I'm afraid the next 2-3 months might be the longest I've gone in years without a hookup, date, or fling/relationship. I feel like I'm being closed off from meeting girls.

 

How should I be trying to meet people? Where can I go?

 

And I know I said I don't want to rely on online dating but does anyone know any decent online dating websites (free ones)?

 

Any other comments regarding my pathetic post?

[Dubb]

Meet them everywhere. Is there some rule that states you can only talk to women in certain places?

[wazza]

well I'm certainly hesitant to just approach someone on the train. I feel like I need a reason to be in a bookstore besides to just meet a woman, or I need to actually be getting coffee to meet someone at a coffee shop

[Dubb]

well I'm certainly hesitant to just approach someone on the train. I feel like I need a reason to be in a bookstore besides to just meet a woman, or I need to actually be getting coffee to meet someone at a coffee shop

 

You don't need a reason. Just walk up and say "hi, you seem like a really nice person and I wanted to come over here and say hello. How is your day going so far?"

 

What is she going to say? No! I'm not a nice person...