4ever2gether Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 So I was wondering how many times a week you all have sex? I am having a bit of a problem with my partner. well not a problem but it is an issue. her sex drive is a bit lower then mine. we have sex about 1-2 times a month sometimes 3. But at times go without it all month. she says she loves to please me, and even if she isn't in the mood she loves to please me, just loves to make me feel good. However when this does happen, you would think that she would get turned on and would want to be pleased as well. but she just doesn't seem in the mood. So I just wondered, how many times in an average do most people have sex a week/month? Now I know for sure that it isn't because she is cheating on me, or she is not interested in me or anything, its just her sex drive.... any advice on what we can do? PS: We are both females... thanks for your thoughts in advance. Link to comment
4ever2gether Posted May 23, 2009 Author Share Posted May 23, 2009 No not depressed. she has has this problem for many years. Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 Maybe it's not a problem for her, maybe it's just the way she is. Was she different in the beginning? Link to comment
4ever2gether Posted May 23, 2009 Author Share Posted May 23, 2009 well i think she was different in a way that it was all new stuff. i mean she was my first female partner and i was hers. so it was all new. now we have been together two years so its not as now. I don;t know. Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 Does she have difficulty reaching orgasm? Maybe it's time for you both to learn how to make orgasms multiply. Is that something she might go for? Link to comment
4ever2gether Posted May 23, 2009 Author Share Posted May 23, 2009 she has always had difficulty reaching, but i get her to cum pretty good. although she has gotten way faster. i have always made her feel comfortable about it, and tell her i enjoy every minute of it. Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 Is there anything distracting her? Is she otherwise occupied? Link to comment
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