crisco disco Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I'm 23 years old. For several months I've had a crush on a girl that works at the video store near where I live. I felt the first moment I talked to her that we had a connection. She is extremely funny and witty, which are extremely important to me. She's really the only reason I rent movies often. She would always talk to me, and be very friendly, which I'm afraid she's just doing that because she's friendly with everyone and it's part of her job. She'd ask me to tell her whether the movies I'm renting are good, and she remembers my name everytime I come in. Once, she even ignored a customer to speak to me as soon as I walked in. Are these good signs that she's interested in me? I've been seeing someone for the past few months, and haven't been renting movies because of this. However we recently broke up and I'm trying to work up my courage to ask the woman from the movie store out. Is it appropriate to ask a woman while she's working? If so how would you recommend I do it? I haven't seen her in a few months so I'm wondering if it would be weird to ask her the first time I see her. For the women: How does it make you feel when a guy hits on you? It always makes me feel like I'm creepy scum of the earth. Sorry for all of the questions! Link to comment
spidey112 Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Wow. I misread the subjec line, thought u were asking if it was ok to hit a woman. lol. If you only see her when she's working, and you really want to ask her out, then you don't have much of a choice. Just summon the courage, and ask her out for coffee or dinner. Good luck! Link to comment
Ruede Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 If you preface your asking her out with, "I've never done this before, but..." then she'll probably be quite receptive. Besides -- you've seen her on a number of occasions... so it's not like you're some completely random guy she's never seen before, suddenly hitting on her. Link to comment
crisco disco Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 Haahah. Oh I know you're only supposed to hit a woman if she talks back to you. Link to comment
Ruede Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Haahah. Oh I know you're only supposed to hit a woman if she talks back to you. I think you should definitely ask her out. Link to comment
ellandroader Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I had this situation with a girl who works in the bank nearby....so I left her my business card as we have talked some but it's a quiet place, so I had to do it discreetly. Hopefully she calls.... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Haahah. Oh I know you're only supposed to hit a woman if she talks back to you. Wow are you serious? So if I were to called you stupid or curse you with some slang terms that guaranteeds a slap in your book?? So in your book with just words you're easily angry enough to hit? You sound just like my father only he doesn't scared me at all. I suppost if a man talks BS to me then that would guaranteed him a slap too? Afterall you're the one saying you would hit a girl if she talks back to you so if it's the guy talking back then I should hit him too?? Why not, afterall it should be 50/50 right) LOL Link to comment
hers Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Finally a person in Atlanta. I never see a fellow Atlantan on this board!! I think you could just come out and ask her out--play it cool while she's ringing you up and say "hey would you like to get coffee sometime?" That should be all it takes!! Good luck! Link to comment
JenniferSNJ Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Did I miss read that line? You mean hit ON a woman if she responds? Or did you mean physically hit? Back to the original intent of the post- I like it when men hit on me if they are doing it in a nice polite way... ie not like a creeper, overly drunk at a bar. I'm not sure how you would go about it, but I think you should nonetheless! Link to comment
hers Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Guys I'm sure he was kidding about "only hit a woman if she back talks you"... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Guys I'm sure he was kidding about "only hit a woman if she back talks you"... Which is not funny at all. You don't joke around things like that. Link to comment
somethngwrng Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Wow are you serious? So if I were to called you stupid or curse you with some slang terms that guaranteeds a slap in your book?? So in your book with just words you're easily angry enough to hit? You sound just like my father only he doesn't scared me at all. I suppost if a man talks BS to me then that would guaranteed him a slap too? Afterall you're the one saying you would hit a girl if she talks back to you so if it's the guy talking back then I should hit him too?? Why not, afterall it should be 50/50 right) LOL wow... get a sense of humour Link to comment
yeawutever Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 wow... get a sense of humour I know thus why I got sense of humor for other things. What may be funny to someone might not be funny to the other person. Link to comment
JenniferSNJ Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Oh come on guys. We have a man in love with a video store girl, can't we help a guy out!? Focus. Link to comment
crisco disco Posted May 22, 2009 Author Share Posted May 22, 2009 Of course wasn't seriously saying I'd hit a woman. I much prefer choking. I also tend to be sarcastic from time to time to time to time. Finally a person in Atlanta. I never see a fellow Atlantan on this board!! I think you could just come out and ask her out--play it cool while she's ringing you up and say "hey would you like to get coffee sometime?" That should be all it takes!! Good luck! My cover's blown! You wouldn't happen to know a cute, nerdy, sarcastic, and witty movie store employee that may or may not have eyes for an awkward, witty & sarcastic woman beater like myself, would you? Link to comment
hers Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 Unfortunately I don't. What part of town do you live in? Feel free to PM me if you'd prefer. I never see Atlanta people on here! Thought this was a big town too... Link to comment
Kaiser_Soze Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 Only hit her if she says no.... jk Link to comment
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