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20 Walk Away Quotes: For when the T...
20 Walk Away Quotes: For when the Time Has Come to Finally Leave

going out with my ex 4 and a half years im 30 shes 23 and we moved to the city 8 months ago she was with me for the 5 months and decided to break up so we are 3 months broke up she said she wished we didnt move in together so soon and moved to the city so soon,i met her for lunch las week and she seemed very happy as she wanted to be friends when we said her goodbyes i was heartbroken, she emailed me this the the next day

 

I loved our time together and it will always be so special to me. Please please don't feel guilty as I want us to remember the great times we had together and all the happiness we shared. And I hope in time you can move on as you deserve to be happy more than anything!! I loved seeing you and really hope we can remain friends as you still mean so much to me. There are times when I miss you also and I miss your family too.. and I want you to know that you are a wonderful person and you will always hold a place in my heart as we were together for so long.

 

I really hope you can be happy and hope you do so well with all your future plans! I am happy for you and proud of you for all you have achieved so far!!

 

So be happy and enjoy life and look to the future with no regret, and remember you are a good person and I will always think of you with a smile on my face.

 

does the my ex really mean this that there is no hope getting back together is it final?? or do dumpers just say this cause the breakup is at early stages? and maybe in the future we may get back together ,im moving on anyway.

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no i wont be friends with her now..Ah..well her loss..im just going to have to pick myself up and move on for my own sake.

 

Yeah it blows... but you've got the right attitude. Stay strong and move on. Nothing says "your loss" like a big smile and your head held high.

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all women say crap like that when they brake up . its call releasing the guilt.

 

i put them to the test right away and move on faster than they think. get a new girl attractive of course and be happy again. then you start catching up with her and little by little letting them now about your new exciting happy new life with your new women.

 

if you are smart you will smell the stench coming from her.

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all women say crap like that when they brake up . its call releasing the guilt.

 

i put them to the test right away and move on faster than they think. get a new girl attractive of course and be happy again. then you start catching up with her and little by little letting them now about your new exciting happy new life with your new women.

 

if you are smart you will smell the stench coming from her.

 

LOL so true!!!

 

Does it apply to male dumpers too even when you are under strict NC?

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It depends. That letter does look final, but I have a feeling you may have a chance. Go NC, not for her but for yourself. Be happy. Get fit. Get a makeover done, hang with your loved ones. Date around... once she'll hear that you're out having a great time, she will start to wonder. Trust me.

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Well then obviously you shouldn't reply right! Be strong! I also know it works. Just don't reply. Who is she to deserve YOUR reply! Hah!

 

This is very true, someone also said on my thread that dumpers are the ones that did the dumping and should therefore have to deal with the consequences. Today is my first day of NC with my ex and I wish you the best of luck with yours

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with any break up i really don't think you can take anyones words at face value from the start , sometimes words like that as many have said are a guilt release .only after time has passed can you tell there true feeling and if they have really moved on

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This is very true, someone also said on my thread that dumpers are the ones that did the dumping and should therefore have to deal with the consequences. Today is my first day of NC with my ex and I wish you the best of luck with yours

 

 

You all should be NC buddies for support !!

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I think that she is really young and she means every word of what she says right now. I think there is chance down the road you guys can come back together. You need to give her time. I don't think in a week she will change her mind. It sounds like she needs time to grow and find her own way. The best thing you can do is go NC. Maybe tell her that this is hard for you and it is better that you not be friends at this time. Explain that it is painful for you and not because you hate her. Then STICK TO IT. Spend time here reading posts. It helps. One day at a time !!

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