InvisibleOne Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 ..then relationship status changed from 'in relationship' to 'single' and 'looking for women for date/relationship', without you knowing?? Then, 'the hacker' added 3 ladies who happen to live in your city, but alas! You completely don't know them?? I have had a Facebook account for 3 years now and nothing like this has ever happened. So I'm thinking this is the stupidiest excuse I have ever heard. Am I overreacting to call it quits? Because I'm about to. Link to comment
greywolf Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Any other questionable behavior besides that? Link to comment
Aueft Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Well this has happened to a friend of mine, done by other friends to screw up the guy's relationship as a "joke." But these are fraternity guys. Link to comment
InvisibleOne Posted May 20, 2009 Author Share Posted May 20, 2009 No, no other questionable behaviours. He was so far the best I have ever had. So we all agree this never happens, right? And the way he insists he has nothing to do with is what's killing me more. Clearly, he's lying. Link to comment
greywolf Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 No, no other questionable behaviours. He was so far the best I have ever had. So we all agree this never happens, right? And the way he insists he has nothing to do with is what's killing me more. Clearly, he's lying. If that was the only problem, I'd probably let it go. But definitely keep your eyes open. Link to comment
Binoo Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Did he at least change it back and get rid of those other girls? Link to comment
angryanimator Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Facebook can't be "hacked". You can fooled or phished into giving your details away, or someone else can use your computer if you leave it logged in. Account hacking is a myth. So while that would make me all the more suspicious, only an idiot would do all that stuff in plain sight of his girlfriend. This could be a tough one. Link to comment
InvisibleOne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 So while that would make me all the more suspicious, only an idiot would do all that stuff in plain sight of his girlfriend. This could be a tough one. He joined Facebook only 3 months ago when we started dating because he wanted to see my profile, so he's not all that familiar with it. I'm sure he didn't realize that the changes he makes on his profile is available for everyone to see. What bothers me is he keeps saying he has nothing to do with it which is clearly a LIE. I hate the fact that he lies to me more than him changing his relationship status or adding some females on his profile. Link to comment
InvisibleOne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 Did he at least change it back and get rid of those other girls? Surely he didn't get rid of the girls but he has removed the relationship status. So now there's no mention of relationship status at at!! I don't even know what's better than the other. Link to comment
breath.o.fresh.air Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 While it does seem strange, if there are no other problems I would keep an eye out, but be careful in my accusations. Does he use the same password for multiple accounts? Could somebody have gotten in knowing what his password is, etc? Also, is there any lurking ex's that might have a reason to want you two to break up. That he is so new to facebook also makes me wonder if there is more going on than it may seem on the surface. He may or may not be lying, but I would be careful in placing blame. Link to comment
InvisibleOne Posted May 21, 2009 Author Share Posted May 21, 2009 That he is so new to facebook also makes me wonder if there is more going on than it may seem on the surface. He may or may not be lying, but I would be careful in placing blame. Thanks! But I don't understand what you mean here? At this point, I have already placed so much blame on him in words, and it's more or less like we have broken up because I told him not to contact me anymore. Am I doing a big mistake? I still don't buy the hacking story though. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 That is a pretty lame excuse. This person would have to know the other person's password, and i doubt a hacker wouldn't change the password, or would bother to change relationship details and add a couple girls. he's full of it. Link to comment
InvisibleOne Posted May 22, 2009 Author Share Posted May 22, 2009 So I thought about it, and thought that maybe I was a bit out of line when I was talking to him. I was pretty angry, called him names, accused him of lying and cheating, which perhaps wasn't very necessary at that point. So I have been trying to reach him to not really apologize but just let him know that I realize I was out of line but still think he should be honest with me; guess what, he's refusing to answer my calls! Charming! Any advice on how to handle this current situation? I don't really want to break up with him. I really love him. Link to comment
greywolf Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 So I thought about it, and thought that maybe I was a bit out of line when I was talking to him. I was pretty angry, called him names, accused him of lying and cheating, which perhaps wasn't very necessary at that point. So I have been trying to reach him to not really apologize but just let him know that I realize I was out of line but still think he should be honest with me; guess what, he's refusing to answer my calls! Charming! Any advice on how to handle this current situation? I don't really want to break up with him. I really love him. Honestly, I think you really messed up on this one. There's no excuse for calling him names. If you don't want to break up, I suggest you call and apologize. Link to comment
InvisibleOne Posted May 23, 2009 Author Share Posted May 23, 2009 Honestly, I think you really messed up on this one. There's no excuse for calling him names. If you don't want to break up, I suggest you call and apologize. Thanks so much. I continued to call, and thankfully he did answer at some point so I fully apologized to him. He said he understands and I think we are good now. Anyway, from now on I'm going to give him space and let him be, I guess. Link to comment
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