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Another does she like me question.


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Yes, I know there's plenty of threads like this. But this is the first time I've ever posted a girl problem on a forum and don't want to see it go ignored. =p

 

There's this girl that I've recently started to talk to a lot. She's in 2 of my classes, and frankly I'm extremely interested in her. The thing is, I can't really use the advice you guys gave in other "Does she like me posts". She's... different. Most of her current friends don't go to the school, most seem to be people who work with her. I remember in Middle school she did hang out with "the" popular girls, but now seems disinterested in that stuff. So there's no girls that can really start talking to me more often to show possible interest. She's one of those girls who's nice to everyone she knows. She does always smile when I talk to her, but she seems to be a.. smiley type of person towards people she knows. When I look up I *think* she's looking at me at times.. (I've never confirmed by smiling or something since when it comes to her I'm a complete wuss) But hell, she may just be looking behind me. She's told me what she plans on during the summer, such as bungie jumping, and sky diving on her bday, and she hinted that I was invited if I wanted to come. I told her I was tempted to go sky diving with her on her bday, but the reality is I'm gone that whole week. I read somewhere that chicks will start grooming a lot when their near a guy they like. Well she does that, but hell that's to broad of an assumption imo. Like I said I have 2 classes with her, I sit right next to her in the 1st class. Yet in the 2nd class unless I plop myself down next to her, she rarely will come sit down by me. Then again the 2nd class I have with her seems to be a bit childish. All the guys except 1 (who's a bit odd), or me at times, tend to sit on one side, and the girls on the other. Like I said, childish. Mind you we're seniors in HS. But it did help make obvious to the whole damn class I have some sort of interest in her. When I see her out of class I see her looking at me, but I always have to say the first, "Hey" all the time. I'm extremely nice to her, but I've come to realize most girls only want to be friends with my extremely nice type. And I'm no stud, but I'm certainly not ugly, or overweight. (no offense intended) So frankly she's confusing the crap out of me. I'm pretty sure she knows I like her in some way but I have no idea if she's interested in me or not. Any input would be appreciated and sorry for the lengthy post.

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well congratulations! you've gone through the first step of getting with a girl, you have become her friend, which for some is the hardest part of all. If you have a group of friends that like to go to parties or go out or something you should casually ask her if she wants to go. when you ask her dont make it obvious just throw it in the conversation just be like "hey did you hear about dave's party? its gonna be great all of us are going! you should come with us its going to be a good time" so it will seem harmless and casual, not even asking her out so the next time you ask her to do something it wont seem harmless at all.

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Thanks for the input, but the thing is that I don't want to invite her to do something with friends. The group of friends I hang out with are pretty close and if we basically do everything together. One of my friends is basically a basterd and hits on every girl he thinks is attractive. If I bring her along he'll basically probably end up getting in my way, which only ends up agitating the crap out of me and I start getting moody. I doubt I can talk to him and tell him to back off. He's that much of an arrogant basterd he'd just most likely end up laughing at me and tell me I have no chance with her or something. Great friend eh? Everyone in the group hates him a little in one way or another. Yet, not enough to stop being friends with him. He did have an interest in her as well so I guess I'm scared he'd snatch her away from me.

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I know this is just a shot in the dark, but have you thought about maybe saying yea we can do something as a group or something and then just state that the other s will meet up later.. and that'll give you a good lead in .. and then well the person is sort of with you for the night and even if the bastard guy does hit on your lady friend it doesn't matter as much. One other thought is that have you ever tried to get your friend infront of girls to look really really dumb? i've done that a fe times and then i ended up getting them to be reallyl good friends of me and push the arrogant guy away. Hope this could help !

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