Sweet Venus Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Guys..if you're in a serious relationship with someone do you like if your g/f does this for you? Would it be a turn on or turn off? Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Nope, naked pictures generally end up on the internet or being passed around. Even if they love you and its serious at the time it could end up going sour. Maybe shots with no face or head Link to comment
yellowcal Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 My fiance would be pissed if I sent him naked pictures of myself, just too much of a risk of someone else getting their hands on them. Link to comment
cutiepie07 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Too much risk involved these days, with the internet and whatnot. Maybe a non-identifying picture/pose, but still risky. Link to comment
LBP Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 It's a bad idea. Send these pictures to me and I'll get rid of them for you. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 I've done this for my ex and for my current man It was the current guy's birthday recently so I made him an album of photographs and put them onto a USB stick for him so he had something to take home with him (it's an LDR). His reaction when he got home and plugged it in was pretty good That said, I feel comfortable doing that kind of thing (my reasoning is that with the amount of porn on the net already, mine is a drop in the ocean) but if you're at all worried about someone you don't want to seeing them, don't do it. Or if it's something he's requested and you don't feel sure about it - just say no. It's not something you should do if you don't feel 100% happy and confident about it. Link to comment
forever1130 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 My fiance would be pissed if I sent him naked pictures of myself, just too much of a risk of someone else getting their hands on them. How would someone else get their hands on it besides him showing them to someone or you accidently sending it to the wrong name or number in your phonebook? Its not like its magically gonna choose a different number to go to lol Link to comment
cat_lady Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 My ex loved it too! I'd send them completely unexpected as well.. like when he was in class or a meeting or something. He'd always get so annoyed.. in a good way. Link to comment
forever1130 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 My ex loved it too! I'd send them completely unexpected as well.. like when he was in class or a meeting or something. He'd always get so annoyed.. in a good way. I used to do the same thing! We work together so a couple times I would just save the pictures in my phone then send them to him when we in a staff meeting so that I could his face! it was priceless everytime! Link to comment
hei Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Probably a turn-on, but I'd much rather have her infront of me naked. The real thing is preferred. That said, if pics were sent, they'd probably stick around for a while, with the risks it involves.. Link to comment
cat_lady Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Probably a turn-on, but I'd much rather have her infront of me naked. The real thing is preferred. That said, if pics were sent, they'd probably stick around for a while, with the risks it involves.. Well, hopefully you're in a long term relationship with someone that you trust so it shouldn't be an issue. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Even if you trust someone unforeseen events can arise such as them cheating or you cheating or breaking up or them getting drunk and angry and posting them up somewhere. There was an article recently in my magazine about girls whose lives had been ruined by naked pictures of them being posted everywhere by exes. Like I said its fine, and fun, just keep your face out the shots lol! Or you could get one of those tasteful photo shoots where your sorta semi naked. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 it's hot. i never put their pics up on the internet either. it's best to do it if you keep your face out of them. then no worries. oh, and make sure you aren't snapping pics on sunday when you still have your undies say wednesday. lol Link to comment
hei Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Nono cat lady, you missunderstood me. I'd never throw'em up on the internet or send them around or anything like that. But there's always the risk of my phone being stolen and whatnot. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 my friend has shown me a couple of his wife.....so be careful Link to comment
cat_lady Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Now that this thread has been brought up.. I wonder what my ex bf did with those pictures. Did he delete them after we broke up? Did he save them for when he was old? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 i have some boxed up somewhere. i could care less to look for them though. if i do come accross them i'll just tear them up or burn them. girls are safe with me. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Now that this thread has been brought up.. I wonder what my ex bf did with those pictures. Did he delete them after we broke up? Did he save them for when he was old? i been told never to throw away--recycle Link to comment
cat_lady Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 i been told never to throw away--recycle Given these digital times, they would all either be saved on his phone or harddrive, so its as easy as, right click -> delete. Takes even less work than putting real pictures in the trash and then going to throw it out. Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 These days they are likely to be electronic and therefore subject to piracy. Personally, I can't see why I would want a man to have my naked image beyond the time I would want him to see me naked in person. If I could remove my naked memory from his brain and take it with me when it's over I would. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 If I could remove my naked memory from his brain and take it with me when it's over I would. Really? That's interesting I like to know my man is thinking about me when I'm not around, not least because it means he's not thinking about anyone else. Link to comment
Samedy Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 How would someone else get their hands on it besides him showing them to someone or you accidently sending it to the wrong name or number in your phonebook? Its not like its magically gonna choose a different number to go to lol Most P2P programs will try to find shareable files when first installed (you can tell it not to, but there are a lot of computer stupid people who fail to do that). If they have roommates, and their roommates snoop... Losing a USB stick. Or if someone breaks into your home and steals the computers... ...I would like nudies from a girlfriend... but you should be smart about who you are giving them to, and what kind of computer security they have (or even how computer smart they are). Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 If the girl and i are serious of course im down with it. I generally dont date psychos so i think i can trust em. Link to comment
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 I usually just do non-identifying body parts. He sees my face enough. Why not send him something more fun? lol Link to comment
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