Should I talk to him???

[iknowhowtolove]

Ok well it's been 5 months that we've been broken up and I'm still hurt and somewhat confused. I've made the mistake of talking to him and even hooking up with him for the past months. I have tried to move on but it's been impossible since I see him everyday. I've been feeling pretty low lately and I really don't want to be like this anymore. He'll call me sometimes to just talk about hooking up but that's it. I know I'm only a booty call. I want to call him today and tell him once and for all about how I feel and tell him I can't continue to be his "friend". I think I would feel better but I don't know if I should. Should I call him or just not say anything and just ignore him?

[metrogirl]

you would really be telling him how you feel about him by not answering his calls for a piece of @ss.

 

He does it because he knows he can. If you want to truly move on, then don't give him a reason to continue contacting you.

[savignon]

you would really be telling him how you feel about him by not answering his calls for a piece of @ss.

 

He does it because he knows he can. If you want to truly move on, then don't give him a reason to continue contacting you.

Well said and DAMN is that guy dreamy!!! You said it!!

[catfeeder]

Someone who uses you as a masturbation device isn't exactly entitled to or interested in your explanations. It also makes no sense to contact someone just to tell him you're not in contact anymore--he'll figure it out.

 

The only reason you could possibly want to contact him is if you're only planning to threaten NC but not really carry it out. In that case you're only looking for him to say the right things so he can keep using you, and he should have no problem doing that if you're willing to be used.

 

I understand this is difficult, and my heart goes out to you. Consider that the only way to win someone's love is to win their respect--and the only way to do that is to respect yourself first. NC in this case would be the ultimate demo of self respect, and if the guy ever wakes up one day and decides that he's madly in love with you, he'll have zero problem reaching you to deliver that news--and if he's sincere, that news wouldn't come in a text message or a phone call, and certainly not in a booty call.

 

Head high.

 

In your corner.