Is this a sign?

[Zka0954]

Ok so there was this on girl I liked. We talked a bit and were going to hang out but I went too fast with her and asked her out on a date before hanging out. She told me that she wasn't interested in dating anyone at the moment. So I dropped it right there taking that as she didn't want to date ME. Well everything was fine after I asked her and I acted cool about it(it really didnt affect me too much) but I still compliment her every now and then and act confident around her(maybe boarderline cocky). But the other day in class I tried talking to her at the end when our lesson was over and the minute the bell rang she ran off without giving me the chance to talk her any more. I took that as a sign she def. isn't interested. Am I over-reacting?

Anywho so lately we've been talking more(before we would talk every now and again, I made sure I didn't appear needy) and we've been joking and she said she as going to the beach over the summer and I asked her if I could and she said sure(this was just us joking around). So we started talking bout all the stuff we could do together and stuff. It seems like to me we're fliriting but she might just be being nice. In our txting convos she sends a lil smiley face all the time and always seems happy.

So do you think there still may be a chance with her if I hang with her some more and give her her some time?

[Zka0954]

Anyone????

[jet_palero]

She told me that she wasn't interested in dating anyone at the moment. So I dropped it right there taking that as she didn't want to date ME.

 

You shouldn't take offense to her statement. Don't automatically assume she meant something other than what she said. Even if she did, don't take it personally.

 

Well everything was fine after I asked her and I acted cool about it(it really didnt affect me too much) but I still compliment her every now and then and act confident around her(maybe boarderline cocky). But the other day in class I tried talking to her at the end when our lesson was over and the minute the bell rang she ran off without giving me the chance to talk her any more. I took that as a sign she def. isn't interested. Am I over-reacting?

Anywho so lately we've been talking more(before we would talk every now and again, I made sure I didn't appear needy) and we've been joking and she said she as going to the beach over the summer and I asked her if I could and she said sure(this was just us joking around). So we started talking bout all the stuff we could do together and stuff. It seems like to me we're fliriting but she might just be being nice. In our txting convos she sends a lil smiley face all the time and always seems happy.

So do you think there still may be a chance with her if I hang with her some more and give her her some time?

 

 

I think you're thinking about this *way* too much. If you ask a girl out, and she says no, move on. Stay chatty and flirty with her, but don't shower her with compliments, don't be affectionate, and don't be someone for her to lean on. You want someone who respects and values you for the person you've chosen to be, not just as someone who is nice to them.

 

Move on from this young lady and chase some other girls.

[Zka0954]

I didn't take it personally at all just found it safer if I assumed this to prevent my hope getting up like this. But now I guess i'm getting my hopes up that she wasn't ready and now she is. So I should just let her go?

[ghost69]

she's not interested. move on.

[tmp02161248]

Friends zone, u may as well be her girlfriend, what u should do is stop talking to her immediately, find some other mildly attractive girl and make this girl jealous, it may not help her like u though it's amazing how badly ppl want what they can't have = )

[Anyway]

She told me that she wasn't interested in dating anyone at the moment

 

To be blunt: This comment shows that you won't stand a chance with her. That's a girl's way to say: "I don't want to date you." Don't take it personally though, it doesn't say anything about you as a person. Last week I got turned down three times and you know what? I had a great date today.

Move on. There're many women waiting out there.

 

So do you think there still may be a chance with her if I hang with her some more and give her her some time?

 

Time won't change anything in her mind. She's not interested. Don't waste your time on this girl. You've got better things to do, e.g. dating hot women ;-)