waveseer Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 It really is. Yes, I must address my issues in order to resolve them completely, both internal and external. And yes, it will take some time. But the truth is...EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OKAY! It is more than a feeling, it is a knowing and I wish this thought on everyone who reads this message. Hang in there, you have everything you need to make it through not only your current troubles but also your future troubles. It's okay to ask for help and it's okay to be CONFIDENT! Right now everything is exactly the way it needs to be. In the next moment you are perfectly capable of altering the things within the scope of your control (i.e. yourself) to make improvements as you see fit. Worrying has never solved a single problem. Acceptance and a positive attitude have solved them every time. I can do it and so can you. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 Aww, great post! With such a positive attitude things should turn out okay for you. It's so true what you say. Sometimes people just give up too soon, or get into a deep negative rut and it's very very hard to dig yourself out of it. Being positive and working hard to get a good result, almost always has a happier ending. Wish you well in whatever you do. Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 Thanks Capricorn, when my awareness of the fact that everything IS going to be okay returns I know I am about to experience a period of real progress. I owe most of the awareness return this time around to ena, to all the wonderful people here and those responsible for keeping this forum viable. I have been here seven months and three days, and I can finally say with confidence that today really is the first day of the rest of my life! Thank you for your well wishes, I return them heartily. Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 17, 2009 Author Share Posted May 17, 2009 Ready2heal I'm happy for you that you are feeling like this... You put that feeling of knowing everything is going to be okay into words so nicely That's a sweet little post! Wish you the best - thanks Thanks, Minnie! Best wishes to you as well! Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 Yay! Good one...keep it up! Link to comment
Pixiedoc Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 This is great to hear - I'm really pleased for you. I had one of those defining moments where there is a great moment of clarity, a weight lifts and you suddenly realise you are FREED from the past and have some strength to go on. It's great that you're there right now. You may still have moments of uncertainty, but there's some major healing going on right now Fantastic! Link to comment
Dante09 Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 These are lovely words to hear today. Cheered me up even more! Link to comment
ellandroader Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 Thanks....I needed to hear this 'Call to Arms' Link to comment
Ms.Lady Posted May 17, 2009 Share Posted May 17, 2009 Your right everything is going to be ok from all of this. You know, it's funny I've experienced heartbreak before 2 times and I look back at those experiences now and laugh,because it seems so silly to me that I was caught up in the guys I was dating at that time. But at those moments, I felt like my whole world ended both times. Yet now after this recent breakup I'm feeling pretty much the same as I did in the past and just like the last two relationships, this will pass as well & I will be back to myself in time. I look at my past experiences and smile because I know deep down in the future I will be alright. I can't wait for the day that comes where I feel nothing for my ex and I can actually laugh at myself and say, what the heck did I ever see in that guy like the others I've dated. I guess this post is to say that everything will be alright, I got over my last couple of ex's and so will you guys.... I'm sure you've guys have been in other relationships and have gotten heartbroken before. Unfortunately this is all apart of life, we will experience this all throughout life until we meet our soulmate. My ex wasn't meant for me and god didn't assign him to be my husband, but there's a man out there who was assigned by god to be with me. I can't wait for the day to meet him. Also I may not ever find the man for me, but I will live life and pursue my dreams knowing that I did do something with my life. Sure I'm hurt, but life keeps going and we all will have to press forward, with or without our exes. It's not the end, it's the beginning Link to comment
rapunzel Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Thanks, everything IS going to be OK. So much of the suffering I and others go through is based on rehashing old stuff, memories, things that already happened that we can do NOTHING about except try to learn from it and move FORWARD. Just this morning I was again rehashing old stuff, blaming myself again and next thing I knew tears were falling. I have two years of incidences to choose from and I could continue picking apart every little thing and wishing it could be different. It changes nothing. The reality is NOW, today, this moment. It happened, he was just as much a part of it as I was. I have to believe that it will all work out, I am where I am supposed to be and EVERYTHING is going to be OK. What other choice do I have? I have to get back into the practice of doing positive affirmations and I love the one from Louise Hay's book "You can Heal Your Life." Thanks for the reminder that EVERYTHING is GOING TO be OK. Link to comment
journeynow Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Everything IS ok. In the present moment, in the NOW. ...Louise Hay's book "You can Heal Your Life." ;-) (Thanks for mentioning it. I pulled this book out of storage yesterday.) Link to comment
Lugh Posted May 18, 2009 Share Posted May 18, 2009 Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you, disappoint you, but they can't prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented with and moving on. No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. You always have a choice and the choice can be power. ready2heal this was my mantra similar to your own, basically its in our own hands to help ourselves. Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 24, 2009 Author Share Posted May 24, 2009 Any change, any loss, does not make us victims. Others can shake you, surprise you, disappoint you, but they can't prevent you from acting, from taking the situation you're presented with and moving on. No matter where you are in life, no matter what your situation, you can always do something. You always have a choice and the choice can be power. ready2heal this was my mantra similar to your own, basically its in our own hands to help ourselves. We need to etch this somewhere in a material that will last a long, long time. Link to comment
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