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Quick Q: Letter to initiate NC?


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I've been going NC with my ex a couple weeks now but don't feel like I ever really explained why. I simply told her it wasn't a good idea that we talked outside of work. I feel a strong urge to write a letter letting her know that I'm using this time to heal, improve myself, and regain my self-confidence. I have no intention of using this as a way to make her feel guilty, or to plead to get back together with her. Rather, just to be informative. Let me know if you think this is a good idea. Thanks.

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I know you were probably hoping for people to say that you should write it. I know how strong that "need" can feel, but I wouldn't write it. If this person ended their relationship with you, you owe no explantation. They wanted you out of their life and now you are gone.

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quick summary, she moved out, ended relationship, i moved on, she saw this and wanted me back, when i finally came around (i was cautious after being hurt) she said she "needed time." that's where we stand today. thanks for the feedback thus far.

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