Quick Q: Letter to initiate NC?

[insecurefool]

I've been going NC with my ex a couple weeks now but don't feel like I ever really explained why. I simply told her it wasn't a good idea that we talked outside of work. I feel a strong urge to write a letter letting her know that I'm using this time to heal, improve myself, and regain my self-confidence. I have no intention of using this as a way to make her feel guilty, or to plead to get back together with her. Rather, just to be informative. Let me know if you think this is a good idea. Thanks.

[simply complicated]

If you have no intention of making her feel guilty, or wanting her back, then the letter would be a pointless thing to do.

[Girl wants EX]

If she dumped you, no need.

[becca0194]

I know you were probably hoping for people to say that you should write it. I know how strong that "need" can feel, but I wouldn't write it. If this person ended their relationship with you, you owe no explantation. They wanted you out of their life and now you are gone.

[insecurefool]

quick summary, she moved out, ended relationship, i moved on, she saw this and wanted me back, when i finally came around (i was cautious after being hurt) she said she "needed time." that's where we stand today. thanks for the feedback thus far.

[becca0194]

ok, she said she needed time...you are giving it to her.