Zka0954 Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Well the school year is coming to an end and this is the first year I have tried to find someone to date. I've been trying to be proactive and live life by my lil' motto I have as my sig. but alls thats happened is that i've gotten rejected. It was much easier when I just floated through life thinking that if someone liked me enough they would just come to me.....I know that's not really all to true but it was much easier that way. I liked floating through life. Now my spirit is broken and I must once again spend a lonely summer with no one to hug or kiss or hold hands with.....any advice on how to cure a broken spirit? Or meet someone? I'm only a junior in HS so I can't go to any clubs or anything. Link to comment
Raistlin Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Go to a public pool and flirt with all the girls there. Or take a buddy to a water park and just people watch. Link to comment
velvette Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 haha you're still in grade 7 (I think?)! don't worry about it too much. I, and a lot of my girl friends, was not interested in dating at that point. when guys asked me out it always ended in rejection, as I wasn't prepared for it/didn't want to get into it. there were some friends who did date, of course, but it was rarer than not. just wait till college, that's where all the dating happens. at least, in my experiences. for now, focus on studies, getting into a good college, maybe working out or whatever you want to do with yourself. hang with guy buddies, play video games, whatever. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 what's your approach like? recently, i've come to realize that guys who ask me out or come on too quickly will never get a yes from me, even if i were attracted to him. If there's a build up, I tend to say yes. My friend agrees. Just putting it out there. Something to think about & gr 10 isn't even that old. Most people don't start dating till college. High school is so small, choices are limited... Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 11, 2009 Author Share Posted May 11, 2009 Thnx for the advice I really appreciate it but i'm in 11th grade going on to 12th lol. what's your approach like? recently, i've come to realize that guys who ask me out or come on too quickly will never get a yes from me, even if i were attracted to him. If there's a build up, I tend to say yes. My friend agrees. Just putting it out there. Something to think about & gr 10 isn't even that old. Most people don't start dating till college. High school is so small, choices are limited... Well one of the girls I asked out there had been flirting going on for awhile and I knew her for a good year before I decided to ask her out. It was really complicated and I ended up coming out with a broken heart. But another one I went too fast with and asked her out on a date before hanging out. She told me that she wasn't interested in dating anyone at the moment. So I dropped it right there taking that as she didn't want to date ME. But do you think there still may be a chance with her if I hang with her some more and give her her some time? Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 hahaha... hmm. it's hard to say, but i'd take what she say at face value. and, i dont understand all this heart broken business. listen, don't take it too seriously. make it fun. if it happens, great. if not, at least you had fun. asking someone out shouldn't be a put your heart on the line situation. that's not normal... Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 11, 2009 Author Share Posted May 11, 2009 Haha well everything was fine after I asked her and I acted cool about it(it really didnt affect me too much) but I still compliment her every now and then and act confident around her(maybe boarderline cocky). But the other day in class I tried talking to her at the end when our lesson was over and the minute the bell rang she ran off without giving me the chance to talk her any more. I took that as a sign she def. isn't interested. Am I over-reacting? Link to comment
Yanet Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 High school drama is a joke and when you graduate you'll look back and laugh. Just ask out girls you're interested in and if you make mistakes then all the better. Mistakes will help you learn and it's much better you learn now than later on in life. Link to comment
Zka0954 Posted May 16, 2009 Author Share Posted May 16, 2009 High school drama is a joke and when you graduate you'll look back and laugh. Just ask out girls you're interested in and if you make mistakes then all the better. Mistakes will help you learn and it's much better you learn now than later on in life. Yeah that's what i've been told, and i'm taking this all as a learing experience and enyjoying life ^_^. Anywho thinking i'm overreacting from what I said happened in my lasst post? I mean when we txt she doesnt seems to be annoyed. Link to comment
greensleeves Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 You could be over reacting. She might have had a another class to go to or somewhere else to be. Just the same, if she doesn't seem interested don't spend too much time stressing about her. You're in a school full of girls...I'm sure there are some others that you might find attractive and interesting. Link to comment
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