4dogs Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 If a girl messed up plans with you when the two of you were supposed to hang out and gave you what seems like a legit reason, and ALSO apologized... Would you ask her to hang out another time? Or just forget about it and see what else is out there... Link to comment
Fola Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Always give two chances. What have you got to lose? Link to comment
huskiesfan Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Of course I would. Things come up, and people have to cancel plans. Not a big deal. Just ask her if she wants to do something another time. Link to comment
Anyway Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Always give two chances. What have you got to lose? Your pride? Your self-respect? Canceling one of the first dates is usually a sign for lacking interest and it disrepects your time. Did she tell when you two can meet instead? If not, move on. Just my two cents. Link to comment
4dogs Posted May 10, 2009 Author Share Posted May 10, 2009 Well she did not offer an alternative but apologized many many many times. Maybe she is just very shy?? Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Give her another chance. You'll know soon enough if this is a pattern or not. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 i canceled on a girl last week. i gave another day as an alternative. she said it would probably be good and get back to me. guess she didn't think i was legit. it was a valid reason too. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 My motto is 3 strikes your out. Give her another shot. Link to comment
Mutley Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 I wouldn't bother with her again. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 If anything since she bailed on your plans, tell her "let me know when your free and wanna get together". this will leave the ball in her court and if she is truly interested she will make the initiative. If not, well atleast you know early on. Link to comment
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