SeaBisquit Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 yesterday i found out that my boyfriend has a boyfriend. i saw the two of them together making out. i don't know what to do. he keeps telling me he loves me and that i'm more than a girlfriend to him. Link to comment
annie24 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 ermmmmmmmmmmmm.............? i think i'd break up with him. he's cheating on you.... with another man! 2 red flags! he doesn't love you. Link to comment
ResonanceTheory Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 1. he has not been honest to you about his sexuality. 2. he is cheating on you (it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl or a billy goat). Link to comment
Hope75 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 It seems pretty obvious to me what you should do, unless you are OK with a guy who cheats and lies and disrespects you. Link to comment
Laura11111 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Dump him. He's cheating on you! Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 I'd show him the door. He's obviously lied to you and has been cheating on you. It doesn't matter what the gender is, it's still cheating. He claims he loves you, but is making out with another guy behind your back. Is that really love?? Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. Link to comment
karvala Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Well if this is the same guy you've posted about in previous threads (did time, raped you regularly, ordered porn off your television while you were there and made you pay for it etc.), then all I can say he's done you a big favour at last. Please tell me you're finally going to dump him after this. Link to comment
dreamwarrior Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Well if this is the same guy you've posted about in previous threads (did time, raped you regularly, ordered porn off your television while you were there and made you pay for it etc.), then all I can say he's done you a big favour at last. Please tell me you're finally going to dump him after this. Wow I didn't even know he did all of that ...gee missed those posts! I hope she dumps him asap ! She don't need to end up with something she cannot get rid of...god forbid! Leave him right now............TODAY! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 How much more are you going to put up with from this guy? I'd be afraid to close my eyes at night, with him around. Link to comment
JusticeLaw9 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Despite his newfound sexual orientation, the bottom line is that he's cheating on you. Link to comment
diabolik Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 He claims he loves you, but is making out with another guy behind your back. Is that really love?? Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. If we're going to use food analogies, let's get it right. He wants to eat pie and have his salad tossed too. yesterday i found out that my boyfriend has a boyfriend. i saw the two of them together making out. i don't know what to do. he keeps telling me he loves me and that i'm more than a girlfriend to him. What seems to be the confusion here? Link to comment
1WayTicket2Norway Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 It's time to let go hun. i'm gay btw, and i can tell you no matter what his sexual orientation is, he cheated on you and you have to dump him... like now. Link to comment
diabolik Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 A number of replies here have suggested that it makes no difference whether he was cheating with a girl or a guy. I think it does. The OP *might* be willing to forgive cheating with another woman, but if he's gay, to stay in a relationship makes no sense. Link to comment
Alezia Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Take advantage of him by luring him into a threesome, then dump him. Link to comment
lady00 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Wow...looked at a coupe of your other threads...this guy is just problem after problem. And now you find him cheating? That's got to be the straw that breaks the camel's back. Link to comment
maverick554 Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 I think you already know what you have to do, it is time to kick his ass to the curb. Its pretty clear that your boyrfriend is gay, no heterosexual man kisses another guy (and I know people bring up that girls kiss each other when they're drunk or whatever and it doesn't mean anything, but it just DOES NOT work that way with guys, it may be a double standard but its the absolute truth.). Odds are that he is not totally out of the closet and is using you as a means to cover up his homosexuality. That way he can lead his double life but still decieve those he wants to into believing that he is straight. But either way it is not right for him to use you and decieve you like he is doing. Sorry if this seems harsh, but I think its right on. Move on and find a man who is straight. Best of luck with everything. Link to comment
mikem Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 Flee! Time to call it day with that dude. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Well if this is the same guy you've posted about in previous threads (did time, raped you regularly, ordered porn off your television while you were there and made you pay for it etc.), then all I can say he's done you a big favour at last. Please tell me you're finally going to dump him after this. If any of this is true I don't see why there is any question about what you should do. Link to comment
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