Advise about break up

[bm8192]

Ill try to make it short, Dating this girl for almost two years, and most of it was long distance while she finished school, before we broke up she got a job where i live so we could be together, but about two months before she finished and is about to move she here she first ask for a break to concentrate on school then it turn into a breakup, and i recently found out that she was dating another, i think,before we broke up she was being distant and not talking as much, she swore it to me that there was no one else but everything points to that there was someone else, im upset that she lied to me about it and wont even talk to me anymore, i tried to contact her a few times over the last few months but only got one email saying how she was doing and she is looking forward to starting her job and hopes all is well with me. should i be worried about this other guy. im trying to move on but its tough knowing she is coming here soon, should i wait for her to contact me, this guy is a few years older and has a steady job up there, do see why she would get into another long distnace again, but thats all i know, any help or insight would be apprecited

[SapphireNoir10]

You have to let her go.

 

Theres no point chasing her if shes moved on and has a new boyfriend. Dont contact her and just try and let it go. If she wants to come back she will, but in the meantime you have to do what makes you happy.

[JusticeLaw9]

When you're seriously involved you don't let anything come between your relationship. The hell with school, books and studying - you get your tail up and you find a way to balance your time and make it work. People always try to use that as an excuse when they want to throw the towel in.

 

Here, it just seems like she wanted to give up on you and that she wanted to be with somebody else. I agree with Blue, I think you need to let her go and find somebody who's worth your time.