Im really bad at flirting

[monkey123]

I dont know why, I just don't get it. When a girl flirts with me I just dont know how to flirt back. I can make girls laugh in groups and stuff but when it comes to 1 on 1 I am horrible! I need help so bad! The only thing that brings me down is my problem with girls.

[Umlunguusa]

Flirting shouldn't be a choir--it should be fun! I think it's just a confidence issue, because you're wondering "what to do"--when in fact, it's only a short list of "what not to do" (i.e, don't mention really personal things at first, and don't be perverted) so just be natural, and it'll come out. say what you want, and use common sense. it's pretty easy. and most of all...BE COMFORTABLE! breath

[pinkelephant]

focus less on trying to flirt and more on enjoying the girl's company. the flirtation should follow once you're comfortable. it's a natural response when you're conversing with someone you're attracted to but our nerves can get in the way.

[monkey123]

I always end up having such a boring conversation though

[Bartok]

I always end up having such a boring conversation though

Boring conversation is typically better than no conversation (which is my problem).

[Ramm Zwei]

Flirting shouldn't be a choir--it should be fun! I think it's just a confidence issue, because you're wondering "what to do"--when in fact, it's only a short list of "what not to do" (i.e, don't mention really personal things at first, and don't be perverted) so just be natural, and it'll come out. say what you want, and use common sense. it's pretty easy. and most of all...BE COMFORTABLE! breath

 

I personally don't enjoy talking to people, period. It's so bad that I even hide or run away from extended family members if I should ever encounter them anywhere. So this advice is lost on guys like me.

[CrazyKing]

I had the problem earlier where you have a ton of thoughts in your head about how you should behave during flirting and such...

 

It's all about being yourself...