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I wanted to post this here because I like you guys. You'll make it. We all will.

 

I wanted to comment on the odds of me finding someone.

 

You know, two weeks after my girlfriend dumped me, her friend set her up with a guy and now they are 'seeing' each other.

 

See, I don't have that. A lot of guys don't have that. I'm sure it goes the same for girls. The point is, what are we supposed to do? What am I supposed to do? I'm going bald and I'm 22. That sentence alone probably gets snickers. I wear hats when I post pics of myself on dating sites. Even on those sites it's just "read and deleted" (you link removed'ers know what I mean).

 

You want to know the worst part? My ex girlfriend (not the one who got set up) is still in love with me, and is willing to give it 100% And she's never lied to me or anything bad, I betrayed her and now she wants me back. But I still don't go for it. I don't want to go back to that right now yet I still know I love her. I sort of want to move forward, see whats there, and if it doesnt work then I'll see if she is still available.

 

*sigh*

 

But I HATE how I don't have it so easy like my recent ex, who just gets set up just like that. I got turned down so many times in the past weeks. I'm not ugly, I'm a good, funny guy who is very approachable.

 

And I'm not picky, I'm just not getting picked.

 

Thanks for letting me rant.

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The easy way is not always the best way.

 

Breakups allow us to grow and learn stuff about ourselves. This is something you will have and she wont. In the end, i think you'll be happy that you waited to find someone worthy of you instead of taking the easy route and being set up with the first semi-decent girl you meet.

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Hey Miles:

 

My cousin, a wonderful guy, started going bald when he was 16-! Part of it was due to genetics, but it was also partly because he wore hair gel and hats. The combination kept his hair follicles clogged and it began to thin tremendously!

 

But besides that, you will meet someone when the time is right- I dated a 22 yo who was going bald when I was about 19. I didn't care about his hair, I loved his personality. And I was a little hottie!

 

I'm so sorry you're going through this- try to remember it's not permanent, and that once you're healed you'll be a lot stronger, happier, and approachable.

 

xo SG

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The easy way is not always the best way.

 

Breakups allow us to grow and learn stuff about ourselves. This is something you will have and she wont. In the end, i think you'll be happy that you waited to find someone worthy of you instead of taking the easy route and being set up with the first semi-decent girl you meet.

 

 

Wise words and I agree - I'm not in a rush. I'm taking my time. Love will find me and present itself to me.

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