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I can't cum without porn - and I'm a girl!!!


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I was probably 8 or 9 when I first saw the beautiful wonderment of squiggly porn on my parents T.V and ever since then I've only been able to have a clitoral orgasm while viewing porn and it's really starting to irritate me quite honestly.

 

I've tried everything I can think of. I've tried watching porn with my partner, I've tried abstaining so that maybe it would be easier, I've tried thinking about it, not thinking about it and even using my vibrator to try and help things along - all to no avail.

 

For whatever reason it never works. i can't watch porn with him b/c I'm either embarrassed or I'm concentrating on his reactions to me and what I'm watching and whether or not they're judging me more than I'm concentrating on the porn and the sensation. May sound like a simple fix - just feel more secure and confident in your partnership but that never happens - my self-consciousness knows no bounds when it come to that and I genuinely don't believe any amount of exposure or trying to overcome it will work seeing as how I've tried that method more times than I car to recall.

 

So what do I do? I want to have those feelings with my partner but I can't ever seem to get there unless I'm on my own.

 

Any suggestions?

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maybe just try watching porn casually with him more often.... see where it goes.. I watched porn with an ex of mine, it was fun! guys like porn anyways and when your with your partner its even more fun.. maybe joking about it with him might make you more relaxed.. there are some really funny porns out there believe it or not.. I'll spare the details lol..

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I have a problem similar to yours. It takes a lot longer for me to get off when I'm not viewing porn as opposed to when I am. I think it's because I take so long to cum, boyfriend has already came and is tired but still trying to help me cum, and I start feeling pressured, get flustered and it holds me back. But when I'm by myself masturbating to porn, I feel no pressure.

 

Perhaps that's your problem? Try backing off from masturbating with porn for a while.. sit back, close your eyes and fantasize about you and your partner going at it.

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