How to just go with it

[kinesian]

I have a very dirty mind, but for some reason when it comes to the rough stuff or trying new things I kind go into my shell and say "I don't know if I could do that". It's like nothing is too dirty but when it comes down to it I get shy :S,

[KG]

Go slowly....wade into the dirty stuff, see if you feel comfortable with it. Only you can decide, but I'm sure your guy would be happy to oblige.

[Lainers]

You should tell your guy about your fantasies. and going with it is EASY! just have a universal safe word like, "Carebear" or "berries and cream", and prepare to be randomly attacked.

 

If things get too rough for you, say one of the words you've decided on. I, personally, live for slaps and spankings. But in the beginning I thought it was something that I could never enjoy though i thought about it.

 

You just gotta jump in!