shy2cool Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I'm just curious as to whether you females think in this way?? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 What kind of a question is that? LOL....of course we do!!!!!!!! Link to comment
Sparchitecht Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Never. Females are stone cold, rock solid monoliths that could give two sniffs what the world around them thinks as long as the chocolate iced cream never melts off their cone. Link to comment
sophie274 Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I'm assuming by "like" you mean "is interested in dating" not "appreciate as a person." Honestly, I used to spend a lot of time trying to decode behavior, figure out if guys liked me, go over what they had said over and over again. But I've realized that in 99% of cases, if a guy likes me, it is extremely obvious. So if I have to think about it, it usually means that he doesn't. Has saved me a lot of obsessing. If you meant "appreciate as a person", another rule I have learned: if you like someone (enjoy their company, find him/her interesting), he/she usually likes you. If you dislike someone, it's usually mutual. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Never. Females are stone cold, rock solid monoliths that could give two sniffs what the world around them thinks as long as the chocolate iced cream never melts off their cone. LMAO....you made me snort beer out of my nose with that one! Link to comment
Aeryn Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Yeah, we actually do. I don't do it as much anymore because, honestly, if a guy liked me...he'd just tell me. I don't want to waste time deciphering his body language. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Yeah, we actually do. I don't do it as much anymore because, honestly, if a guy liked me...he'd just tell me. I don't want to waste time deciphering his body language. Amen to this post...... Link to comment
Sparchitecht Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 LMAO....you made me snort beer out of my nose with that one! I wonder if a bottle 'o beer would make ENA more riveting a passtime? Hmmm... Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I wonder if a bottle 'o beer would make ENA more riveting a passtime? Hmmm... I'm having a bottle 'o beer.....LMAO Link to comment
shikashika Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 of course!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't think how many hours of my life I've wasted trying to analyse, and getting my friends to analyse whethersoem guy liked me or not. and, when you spend so much time wondering, usually he does not. you KNOW when someone likes you... if you have too much time to think about it, they probably don't. Link to comment
Sparchitecht Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I'm having a bottle 'o beer.....LMAO And hence the question... you sound like you're enjoying yourself... Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 And hence the question... you sound like you're enjoying yourself... and you are correct....I am! Link to comment
Sn0man Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I wonder if a bottle 'o beer would make ENA more riveting a passtime? Hmmm... It makes it much more enjoyable Link to comment
lady00 Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 For me personally, if I think a guy is attractive and he seems like he is going out of his way to talk to me, then I do think about it. Otherwise, it's not really on my radar. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Not really. If he likes me enough and he's capable then he'll let me know. Link to comment
dr_styles Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 of course we do!!!!!!!! Yeah I'm pretty sure they do. But being a little in-tune with shy2cool I can understand exactly why/how he'd ask this. I've done similar myself with this one! Link to comment
corvidae Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I wish women wouldn't assume that if a man is interested he will let you know. Think about it, if you're interested in a guy do you always let him know? Or do you keep your cards close to your chest until you find out more about him? Men and women aren't as different in this respect as women seem to think. There are a lot of women I've been interested in but did nothing about because I wasn't sensing any positive vibes from them so I thought if I let them know then it would just be a waste of time. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Yes, as a matter of fact I do. If I am interested in a guy and I am satisfied with how well I know him I ALWAYS let him know. You might think this is due to my age but it isn't, I've always been this way. What has changed is the amount of due diligence I need to feel secure in how well I know him, that's increased tremendously as I've grown older and hopefully wiser. Link to comment
Umlunguusa Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 So wait, to most women, it's obvious a man likes her? Because I was always told I was "Very hard" to decipher, and some women thought it made me more intriguing, but it annoyed me because how else am I going to know if she likes me or not unless she asks? Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Some women will know, some won't. Most men are very obvious especially when they are playing their cards close to the vest. Link to comment
Jake Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 Well it makes sense for women to assume that generally speaking if a guy is interested in her he will make it obvious. Although with this assumption you will have to exclude shy guys. I'm far to shy and chicken to walk up to a girl I like (just being honest). I have it some how infused in my brain to NOT make it obvious....makes alot of sense.. I know. This thread makes it clear as to why shy guys don't date because they simply aren't obvious enough (what else is new I guess). Link to comment
SexinmyCity Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 of course we do! And thinking about it is tortuous and delightful all at once. Link to comment
t3nder_v1ttl3s Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I wish women wouldn't assume that if a man is interested he will let you know… …There are a lot of women I've been interested in but did nothing about because I wasn't sensing any positive vibes from them so I thought if I let them know then it would just be a waste of time. It’s like a man assuming a woman isn’t interested in him because she didn’t just walk up to him and tell him how much of a stud she thought he was. To me it seems like a double standard. Women expect men to be aggressive and confident enough to just let them know how they feel even though they are themselves weak and insecure and will never let a guy know how they feel. Just my opinion. Some guys will simply go for it but we’re not all like that. A lot of us will never do anything to let you know we are interested, especially if we see no sign from you that you are interested in us. Yes it is insecurity. But it is no more so than what women who sit back and wait on the guy to do everything suffer from. Like you we do not want to be rejected. Link to comment
dr_styles Posted April 25, 2009 Share Posted April 25, 2009 I'm far to shy and chicken to walk up to a girl I like (just being honest). I have it some how infused in my brain to NOT make it obvious....makes alot of sense.. I know. Well from what I'm reading this thread isn't about trying to self-improve or a challenge, but as I mentioned more like a reality check. Do girls like guys? Do girls think if a guy might like them? We all take these almost as facts of life, but after a while you just have to question them cos they ain't happening to us particular guys. So something I'd like to pose to you Jake (and anyone else interested) - if the answer were a resounding yes, would you be any different? (I don't know myself yet, lol) Link to comment
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