Mutley Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I just like to say something about a coworker of mine. I always thought of her to keep my self pity and problems in perspective. Her 10 year old son died of a brain tumor a few years ago. It devastated her. I believe losing a child would be about the worst thing that a person can experience in life. Well, she committed suicide either last night or this morning. A very tragic story. It hammers perspective effectively. Link to comment
jengh Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Very sorry to hear about your co-worker. Terrible tragedy Link to comment
DN Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I think that is so sad. The only thing to say is that I am glad she is now at rest and relieved of her pain. I hope her passing did not cause pain to other family members. Link to comment
vertigoxo Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I think that is so sad. The only thing to say is that I am glad she is now at rest and relieved of her pain. I hope her passing did not cause pain to other family members. Trust me, DN- Death hurts everyone, even to those who haven't really gotten to know her personally but only knew her from afar. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 OMG Mutley....I am so sorry. That is tragic all the way around...... Link to comment
Mutley Posted April 23, 2009 Author Share Posted April 23, 2009 Thanks for all the kind words. There are some very hurt people here at work today. Some had to call off. Link to comment
Zeitgeist Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 That really sucks man - sorry. I think there are some psychic wounds that one cannot recover from. Life can be really unfair sometimes. Was her husband (ex?) still in her life? Link to comment
Mutley Posted April 23, 2009 Author Share Posted April 23, 2009 No. The story was that her and the husband were talking divorce before the son got ill. Then they pulled together when it happened. After the death, they divorced. She had a boyfriend that she just got back from nicaragua with. Very scary to think that are some wounds that my not heal. Link to comment
COtuner Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 How very sad.... I am so sorry to hear about her death. So many people are deeply affected by loss in their life, and it's kind of sad that we have so little recourse to deal with it in today's world. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 No. The story was that her and the husband were talking divorce before the son got ill. Then they pulled together when it happened. After the death, they divorced. She had a boyfriend that she just got back from nicaragua with. Very scary to think that are some wounds that my not heal. some wounds don't heal...they just change with time. Too bad she didn't give it more time. Link to comment
Mutley Posted April 23, 2009 Author Share Posted April 23, 2009 some wounds don't heal...they just change with time. Too bad she didn't give it more time. Yes, First of all I don't want to downplay the loss of a child at all...I can't imagine the pain she had to deal with. But, death is forever. Yes, perhaps if she would of given it more time... Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Yes, First of all I don't want to downplay the loss of a child at all...I can't imagine the pain she had to deal with. But, death is forever. Yes, perhaps if she would of given it more time... Like I said....time does not heal all wounds...it just changes them. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 The death of one's child is the worse thing to ever endure, many people are never the same and some can not endure it at all. I feel for her pain. May God bless her soul. Link to comment
Mutley Posted April 23, 2009 Author Share Posted April 23, 2009 Yea. I guess this may have been something one could not overcome. Link to comment
valley Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 I just like to say something about a coworker of mine. I always thought of her to keep my self pity and problems in perspective. Her 10 year old son died of a brain tumor a few years ago. It devastated her. I believe losing a child would be about the worst thing that a person can experience in life. Well, she committed suicide either last night or this morning. A very tragic story. It hammers perspective effectively. the child should be the one burying the parent, not the other way around. I know some people who have been grief stricken for years after losing a child. The old saying, "Time heals all wounds" is not true for everyone. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 Yea. I guess this may have been something one could not overcome. Apparently...... God rest her soul. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 I'm sorry, Mutley. I wanted to comment earlier but didn't have words. I still don't, it's too tough. Link to comment
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