headph121 Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Let me explain a little something about myself before you make an opinion. I'm a 33 year old with one kid that I had 6 years ago. I work a 9-5 but the stress hasn't been there like it was when my little boy was an infant. Me and my husband always find a time to get wild but most of the time (just within a year and a half) I feel like I'm not involve with it like I used to be. I don't feel nearly as horny as I used to. What could it be? So I was doing a little research and people have been saying a lot of good things about these herbal supplements to boost the female libido. I even asked one of my close girlfriends about it and she said her friend has had success with them. So after seeing something a couple months ago, I believe it was on the Today show or one of those main morning shows. It was featuring these natural link removed. I forget the names of them. I then found a couple of them at link removed which were the vigorelle and provestra ones. Now does any one know of successes with these? If I get them I will for surely keep you posted. Thanks! Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I took one years ago that didn't work. My problem was never my libido, it was my resentments. Link to comment
headph121 Posted April 23, 2009 Author Share Posted April 23, 2009 Yea I don't even get wet anymore...Not even on BC Link to comment
Cardinal Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I suggest doing research on the compounds that you are interested in trying. Don't even look at the brand name (it is 100% meaningless compared to what is inside it). Anything that will boost natty test levels or change your hormones has a shot at changing your sex drive. It might help to start by figuring out how the various estrogens impact your sex drive (and also how testosterone changes it). Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 how's your diet? have you tried food that are known to be aphrodisiac? do you work out? and some bc can kill your sex drive. that's what alesse did for me. i couldn't even get wet on it. it was awful. Link to comment
HealingHandsWarmHeart Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 you can try Ashwahandha (indian ginseng)- its got all sorts of benefits .. one being it increases libido... i take it every single day. =) Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I think it's interesting that every time one of these kinds of threads pops up, everyone is so quick to blame things like diet, BC, etc. Because if you follow the posters to completion if they stick around long enough, problems in the relationship always surface up. The correlation is just too strong to ignore, a woman's sex drive is so intimately tied into how she feels about her man. Link to comment
doyathink Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I think it's interesting that every time one of these kinds of threads pops up, everyone is so quick to blame things like diet, BC, etc. Because if you follow the posters to completion if they stick around long enough, problems in the relationship always surface up. The correlation is just too strong to ignore, a woman's sex drive is so intimately tied into how she feels about her man. I have to agree. I didn't have a sex drive for years while I was with my ex. He did nothing to excite me. I could take it or leave it. I've been dating the new guy for almost 7 months, and not one day of it am I not overly in the mood for him. He's exciting..adventurous....and you never know what he'll come up with next. He definitely holds my attention. When I was with my ex I thought about trying these meds...but never did. Now I know it wasn't me, it was the relationship. Link to comment
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