Keep Monitoring my ex hook-up account?!?

[HoneybflyMm]

I ended a bad relationship about 2 weeks ago. He is 20 years older than me and I was so clingy that I thought/ still think he is the best thing that happened to me. He had the keys to my dream house and was everything I wanted him to be. well almost, I found out he was addicted to alcohol and sex. He had a thing for prostitues, porn and sex sight. I managed to get the password on one of his accounts and I just can't seem to stop checking it daily to see what he is doing.

 

We broke up, he has shown through his actions and his words that he just wants to be friends after 1 year. I gave up everything for him including my job. I didn't speak to him for 2 days and I've been wondering sad and stuck in my apartment without wanting to go out or look for work. I started feeling good and happy so I called him to see what he was up too, he invited me out to dinner as friends, he said he didn't want to confuse me but how can you be friends after he kissed me in public and we slept together just last Sunday.

 

I have some money that will last me through out june, it would be easier if I played nice so that he could help me out. but I don't want to talk to him anymore. I feel like he played me. I don't know how or what to do. will this feeling ever go away? will I think of me for a change, what can I do????

[sbux_addict]

Stay away from this guy now! I wasted my time on someone who was also significantly older and I am now just starting to realize how he used me. Like this jerk, he would say and do the same thing - invite me over for dinner as friends and then he would say that he doesn't want to confuse me but still had sex with me. He knew how to play me and control me. It was nothing but an ego trip for him because he is much older. Sickening, I hate him up to this day.

[skyblue69]

I started feeling good and happy so I called him to see what he was up too... what can I do????

 

 

I know it's much easier said then done, but you should have never called him after he told you he wanted to be "just friends" after he dated you for an entire year.

 

And I believe age is nothing but a number. There are plenty of examples of successful age-gap relationships.