waveseer Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Got it. Now that I'm a bit older and wiser, I usually let women know early on that I have/watch porn. If they have a problem with it, they can leave. Most seem to be cool with it. But they also know that it does not take away from our sex life. It is still a sexual activity performed without your partner. Lucky you that you find women willing to share. Link to comment
diabolik Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 It is still a sexual activity performed without your partner. Lucky you that you find women willing to share. Oh, all these women masturbate by themselves too, probably while fantasizing about some Fabio-like dude from a romance novel. I have no problem with that. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Oh, all these women masturbate by themselves too, probably while fantasizing about some Fabio-like dude from a romance novel. I have no problem with that. I've always been partial to Christian Bale. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Oh, all these women masturbate by themselves too, probably while fantasizing about some Fabio-like dude from a romance novel. I have no problem with that. Why would I be with man A if I wanted to fantasize about man B? Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Why would I be with man A if I wanted to fantasize about man B? This is why you're a woman and not a man. Most men cannot help but do this. It's genetic. Link to comment
rocio Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 This is why you're a woman and not a man. Most men cannot help but do this. It's genetic. ahahahaha! thanks for the laugh, buddy. Link to comment
diabolik Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Why would I be with man A if I wanted to fantasize about man B? Variety. You may not have a need for it, but many do. Do you think you current SO only thinks about you during sex? Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 This is why you're a woman and not a man. Most men cannot help but do this. It's genetic. Wrong, more men than women just don't care to hold every thought captive. It takes several thoughts strung together to achieve orgasm. The first thought is not my responsibility, the rest are. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Variety. You may not have a need for it, but many do. Do you think you current SO only thinks about you during sex? Variety is fine, but this topic is about marriage which is the acceptance of NO variety for most definitions unless you count dressing up. Link to comment
diabolik Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Variety is fine, but this topic is about marriage which is the acceptance of NO variety for most definitions unless you count dressing up. Well, the issue of variety deserves it's own thread, and you're right, let's not clutter the OP's thead with this. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 Variety is fine, but this topic is about marriage which is the acceptance of NO variety for most definitions unless you count dressing up. It's understandable that women are so habitually disappointed with men. Largely unrealistic expectations. Unfortunately, men, about different things with respect to their women, are little to no different. Link to comment
diabolik Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 It's understandable that women are so habitually disappointed with men. Largely unrealistic expectations. Unfortunately, men, about different things with respect to their women, are little to no different. I guess that's a benefit of homosexuality - you don't feel like you are communicating with an entirely different species. ](*,) Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted April 23, 2009 Share Posted April 23, 2009 I guess that's a benefit of homosexuality - you don't feel like you are communicating with an entirely different species. ](*,) You'd be surprised! Link to comment
AnonGuy Posted May 1, 2009 Share Posted May 1, 2009 While I was with my girlfriend, I sometimes used porn. Honestly, sometimes it's just easier than going through the whole "process" when I want a quick release. It DOES NOT mean he doesn't love you or really wants other women, ESPECIALLY if you're still active in the bedroom and satisfying each other. What helped for me and my girlfriend was, there were one or two things she didn't like to do in the bedroom but that I really liked to see in porn - and once she started to do those things (which were REALLY minor but important for me) at least half way, I gave up the porn completely and PREFERRED her to get me off instead. Hope that helps. Link to comment
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