untouchable Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 We are still broken up since Jan 09. I use to have dreams about her after the first few weeks of the break-up but they eventually went away. Until now...I have had two scary dreams about her and a certain guy she had slept with during our break up. In the dreams I am chasing after her trying to get her to be with me then this guy pops up in the picture. She says I don't love you anymore, I love him. I wake up sweating, hurt, and angry. Is this normal? Link to comment
untouchable Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 Here are my stories... Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Very normal. You're just going the the healing process. Hang in there man. Link to comment
keenan Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Yep, you're completely normal. (In fact, dreams about exes are so normal that people here ask about them all the time.) Sounds like you're still processing. They'll fade in time. Link to comment
Duckie198100 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Ya, normal, I stopped contact with my BF about 3 months ago, and just last night I had an insane dream about him...woke up shaking. Hopefully it will get better. Link to comment
Yodabell Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Definitely normal. My ex broke up with me almost 2 years ago. I've never had lots of dreams about him, but I had one about 2-3 weeks ago, and I've moved on. It just means they were someone important in your life. Link to comment
untouchable Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 Ok that makes me feel better. It was so weird because they seem so real, and it was back to back nights. It's like my head is telling me to stay away from my ex even though she still contacts me. Link to comment
Growl1971 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 yes...and please don't got freudian about it... the ex is on the mind, so of course it's natural to dream about it....leave it at that, because it's that simple. Link to comment
sueshi Posted May 6, 2009 Share Posted May 6, 2009 I am completely new to this kind of communication but I am wondering if someone can shed some light on something..... I split with a live in partner three years ago and every once in a while I think of him (that's normal, I know) but recently I am having very vivid dreams of the two of us. It used to be that I was "chasing" him, but in these more recent dreams he's watching me from afar. They're confusing on one level as I have had a boyfriend for the past two years and we have a deeper bond than any previous relationship either of us has had. I'm pretty concerned as I sometimes talk in my sleep and my ex's name is on the tip of my tongue even when I'm awake....so you can imagine my fear when I awake each morning!!!! Does this mean that I am not over my ex? Does this mean that I don't love my boyfriend, even though I've never been happier, more confident or secure? Link to comment
BCR88 Posted May 6, 2009 Share Posted May 6, 2009 We are still broken up since Jan 09. Same day she broke up with me.. it's tough... about the dreams, yes I have them sometimes! My went away also after first few weeks, but I guess I will dream about her from time to time. hang in there Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted May 6, 2009 Share Posted May 6, 2009 Does this mean that I am not over my ex? Does this mean that I don't love my boyfriend, even though I've never been happier, more confident or secure? You probably still have some feelings for your ex because he was a part of your life, but that doesn't mean you don't love your new boyfriend. Link to comment
felinex Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 i'm new here, and i just would like to say that i'm glad i found this forum. i also get very vivid dreams of my ex. it really sucks because i end up waking up in the middle of the night, i'd wake up angry or sad and sometimes i'd cry... this is my 4th breakup, but its the toughest since its my first "mature" relationship. we kinda planned a whole lifetime together. we talked about marriage, and kids, and all that. he was also my good friend before we started dating and i have so much happy memories with him. i know the dreams will go away... i hope they stop soon. Link to comment
fiatyamaha Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 sorry but people tend to over-analyze about dreams. do you analyze why you dreamt a dog, a cat or a stranger? no. so why would you care of you dreamt your ex? Link to comment
surfjon Posted May 7, 2009 Share Posted May 7, 2009 I still do, it's normal...... Mine are generally quite sad though and I usually awaken mournful and full of guilt for the role I played........ I don't believe they will ever end either. Peace, Jon Link to comment
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