miracle29 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 I'm actually doing some soul searching trying to find myself and some past feelings have come up. I think if all of you can share with me and me with you that perhaps I can heal a bit at all the lies and schemes i've had run on me. I just don't want to feel like I'm alone in this. I want to feel like someone else has also experienced a crazy! So please share with me a small bit about the biggest liar you've ever dated. I've had more than one, but the one main one that sticks out is the over obsessive jealous boyfriend who actually hit him self in the eye (after I was breaking up with him on the phone because he was just creepy) so when he came to see me in person he had a black eye. This guy swore he was jumped at a gas station and they hit him in the head with a bat. I went to this gas station and they have cameras. The attendent said she had no tape, no memory of this guy and more. I knew he was lying anyway because anyone hit in the head with a bat multiple times will come out with WAYYYY more than a small black eye. What a psyco. He even faked walking crooked for sympathy. I was so happy to be rid of him. He told many more lies...like he'd claim he beat someone up and I'd find out later the person didn't even exist. Sick..Yes....you bet. Link to comment
IBelieve Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Does it still count if they come clean by themselves after a few days? I've only dated one person.. my ex. The biggest one she told me was that she wasn't talking to HER ex anymore.. she swore to me. And then she started to fill me in on conversations she was having with one of her "friends" just to see my reaction.. and eventually she told me this person was her ex. Its nothing MAJOR I know.. definitely not compared to what you had to put up with. He sounds like a major psycho.. I can't imagine punching myself in the eye or walking with a limp just to get sympathy.. wow. Link to comment
browneyedgirl36 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Biggest liar I've ever dated...hmmmm....nothing TOO huge, just lied about the fact that he had a live-in girlfriend while he was trying to date me. Ugh. We had dated previously, it had faded out, he had started seeing someone else. A few months later he started contacting me again, so I assumed he was not seeing anyone. I went out with him a few times, he wanted to sleep with me, something told me to hold off, and I found out from a mutual acquaintance that he was living with a woman the whole time! His lies were mostly stupid ones; my favorite was when he asked me to lunch for the next day, then, on that day, an hour or so before he was supposed to meet me, indicated that he had a "dentist appointment" that he had forgotten about. A dentist appointment that he'd forgotten until an hour before? The kicker was that the day was a major U.S. holiday, on which it would be HIGHLY unlikely that any dentists would have been working. Big. Fat. Liar. When he called me, too, he called from his driveway, in his car. I could hear what sounded like a car radio and I asked him where he was. Obviously, he couldn't call from inside his house because his GIRLFRIEND was probably in there. As soon as he told me he couldn't make it, I suspected something was up (even though I didn't know about the girlfriend at this point), and I abruptly ended the call, practically hanging up on him. Once I found out that he had a live-in girlfriend, I wrote him a very terse letter telling him what I thought of him. Not surprisingly, he didn't respond, which was good. I never wanted to hear from him again. Link to comment
laisla Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 lol that is a funny story about the black eye. well i never dated this guy but he was a very close friend to me back in highschool (he went to a different school an hour away). he was totally in love with me for a year or two. i never agreed to go out with him. so we were more like good friends. one time he lied about being very depressed and becoming an alcoholic. a week after his cousin told me that he was in the hospital because he had taken 6 sleeping pills and was in a coma. that his kidney had failed and he needed a new one. and then a day later his cousin had gave him his kidney. his cousin told me to "just say yes to him just to give him some happiness". i still said no. a week later he was online again and told me he was doing fine. i was 16. i had believed it. i found out some time ago that it was FAKE. i told another friend this story who told me that sleeping pills would affect a person's liver, not their kidneys. urghhh. this guy has lied to me many times before but this hospital story was by far the worst. Link to comment
miracle29 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 La Isla...thats hillarious (i'm rolling) thank you I so needed that. Man what a doucher! Link to comment
miracle29 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 HOLY MY MONA! A dentist appointment. LMAO ..oh you guys have me crying i'm laughing so hard. See I knew this post would somehow be funny and help heal me. Thank you guys. Big hugs. Link to comment
miracle29 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 Does it still count if they come clean by themselves after a few days? I've only dated one person.. my ex. The biggest one she told me was that she wasn't talking to HER ex anymore.. she swore to me. And then she started to fill me in on conversations she was having with one of her "friends" just to see my reaction.. and eventually she told me this person was her ex. Its nothing MAJOR I know.. definitely not compared to what you had to put up with. He sounds like a major psycho.. I can't imagine punching myself in the eye or walking with a limp just to get sympathy.. wow. Oh yes he was a total weirdo. He would also claim he got promotions at work (I WORKED THERE TOO FOR A MINUTE>..THINK I WOULD HAVE NOTICED SINCE I WAS HR) anyhow ...he would speak of raises and all. What a weirdo. Link to comment
laisla Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 La Isla...thats hillarious (i'm rolling) thank you I so needed that. Man what a doucher! he actually contacted me a week ago (last we spoke was more than a year ago). i asked him what was new with him and he said "i have my own business now. i'm in the entertainment industry. i have a modeling and talent agency". my first thought: sure buddy, and pigs can fly. he is 20 years old and he is lazy hahaha. i was right, when i asked more about his company, he said it hadn't started yet. Link to comment
Blanco Nino Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 My first really serious GF I was with for about 9 months when I was 22 or so. We were both going part time to the local college and she would go to a college about 3 hours away for two weekends a month to see her "friends." Turns out she was seeing her fiance! haha It's funny now...but just horrid at the time. I even moved like 10 states away I was so crushed. And the worst part was I didn't even know if I was cheated on...I mean technically the other guy was cheated on lol. We even talked about getting married! How sick is that? I always wondered why I never got to meet her friends or family. A red flag I'd always be aware of from then on. I actually googled her a couple years ago and saw she was in the military of all places. Still has the same last name so hopefully she had a god awful divorce or three. I'm not bitter. Link to comment
miracle29 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 sure buddy' date=' and pigs can fly[/i']. Muhhhahahaahah Wow...what a winner this guy. The gas station attendent said there was never a fight. I was like dude...what is yourdeal! He was a true weirdo. Link to comment
miracle29 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 No...bitter never. LOL...she sounds like she did you a favor. Haha. Wow...her fiance. I'm loving these post. Still however I think i hold the reigns for "PSYCO OF THE YEAR" Link to comment
Pandaman211 Posted April 22, 2009 Share Posted April 22, 2009 Man without blanco, this thread would be the internet/electronic version of some women drinking wine, watching sex and the city, and bagging on their old bf's... Entertaining thread regardless. Link to comment
miracle29 Posted April 22, 2009 Author Share Posted April 22, 2009 Man without blanco, this thread would be the internet/electronic version of some women drinking wine, watching sex and the city, and bagging on their old bf's... Entertaining thread regardless. Yeah so please can some more men respond. We all know A Liar can be both Sexes. Link to comment
offplanet Posted April 26, 2009 Share Posted April 26, 2009 He sent me an email, as if it was from someone else, praising him up! I could tell he had written it himself, because of the way he spelled certain words. When I told him I knew he had written it himself, he got angry at ME!! There were so many other things I'm sure he lied about, but whenever I mentioned that, he got angry and hurt with me for doubting him. I think he might have believed his own lies. These days he's calling himself a doctor. How embarassing. offplanet Link to comment
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