luke2005 Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 hi all, i cant believe i am typing this, i met this girl 3 months ago we were so happy for 2 of the months, but then i hit finacial issues, but then she wanted to move in with me, i asked for some of your advice and you quite right said no after such a short space of time, we still went to look at a house but while we went round it we really annoyed each other, we both knew it was the wrong thing to do straight away,but after that i started thinking do i want to be with this girl, we had a nice sunday and she was telling me how much she loved me, telling me that she was really happy and i was the man for her. Anyway she was a little quiet all day not much contact whilst i was at wrk which was fine, i just thought she was busy i spoke to her normal after work then all of a sudden i got a text telling me she wants to be single, and on her own, i have been dumped, im unhappy in a way with it, thought she was really nice, i was thinking it was because i had no money to entertain her or go out, all we have done for 2 months is watch tele, what im asking is do you think it was my fault because i had no money or do you think she wasnt the one am i better offwithout her or should i chase???? Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 If she dumped you because you don't have a lot of money, then she was a golddigger and you can do better. My boyfriend hardly ever has money to take us out, so we spend most nights watching TV and movies at his house...but I'd NEVER complain about it, all I want is to spend time with him...doesn't really matter what we're doing. If she really broke up with you over that, then it shows you were more of a form of entertainment than you were a companion. Link to comment
Mr Blue Eyes Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 Pinkrobot has the right idea, for 3 month into a relationship buying/renting is a hugh step to take both financial and emotional and if she left you purely just becase you didn't have the money to do so I would say your better other not dealing with her in the future Link to comment
luke2005 Posted April 20, 2009 Author Share Posted April 20, 2009 i dont think that was the reason, she said she just wants to be on her own. i thought it might of been me because i had no money Link to comment
yonkeehoi Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 From your story, I don't see the money component. Could it be that you both felt this wasn't 'it' and she happened to pull the trigger first? Link to comment
luke2005 Posted April 20, 2009 Author Share Posted April 20, 2009 i dont know maybe she wasnt the girl for me, my dad said she would stick with me for the couple of months i had problems with money if she really liked me that much, i think i put to much pressure on the relationship for it to work , i keep thinking that i should be married because i am 28 Link to comment
catfeeder Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 Is she was looking to play house that quickly, she wants to be taken care of. That's not about you, that's about her inclination to use one guy until she finds her next mark. You are soooo much better off without that one, and you likely suspect this as true. In your corner. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 i would have gotten rid of a girl like that long ago if she acted like that. forget her. Link to comment
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