shaking Posted April 20, 2009 Author Share Posted April 20, 2009 my boyfriend of almost two years just broke up with me yesterday. he came over on saturday, slept over, everything was fine cept he had fought with his sister so he needed to talk. we went to bed, he woke me up making jokes with me and cuddling me and then in the next breathe told me that he wasnt the guy for me and he broke up with me. we went frm talking 8 or 9 times a day to nothing and it hurts so bad. i dont know what to do, i feel like i cant breathe. he alwasy cared about me so much, and then this. i feel so confused and lonely. how do i not touch him? or tell him i love him? or send him stupid smiley faces? Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 my boyfriend of almost two years just broke up with me yesterday. he came over on saturday, slept over, everything was fine cept he had fought with his sister so he needed to talk. we went to bed, he woke me up making jokes with me and cuddling me and then in the next breathe told me that he wasnt the guy for me and he broke up with me. we went frm talking 8 or 9 times a day to nothing and it hurts so bad. i dont know what to do, i feel like i cant breathe. he alwasy cared about me so much, and then this. i feel so confused and lonely. how do i not touch him? or tell him i love him? or send him stupid smiley faces? I'm sorry sweetie. You will be hurt for a little while, but you will be OK. DO NOT contact him Link to comment
IMAbadman Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 Sorry this had to happen to you. Hmmm... you know this sounds a lot like some immature game. He didn't get what he wanted so he feels doing this is punishing you. My advice is don't contact him. He'll contact you eventually. Link to comment
quirky Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I feel for you, hang in there girl. Strange it was so sudden..I know it doesn't make sense right now, try not to panic and don't look too far ahead. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 has he done anything like this before? Link to comment
shaking Posted April 20, 2009 Author Share Posted April 20, 2009 to other girlfriends yes, but to me never. even if we fought he never went more than 3 hours without calling me to make sure i was ok. now its been 24 hours.. how could he notmiss me? how do u just cut someone off like that! Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 how old are you both? I'm sorry. This is a rough time. Try to get comfort with friends. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 to other girlfriends yes, but to me never. even if we fought he never went more than 3 hours without calling me to make sure i was ok. now its been 24 hours.. how could he notmiss me? how do u just cut someone off like that! Well if he has done this in the past with other girlfriends, then I'm sorry to say he is an immature ass and doesn't know what he wants or he is just a cruel person. How old is he? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 about 2 b 27 One would think that a 27 year old would conduct himself a little more accordingly. Again, I must emphasize that his doing this to other girlfriends is a sign of his immaturity and you could do so much better than that. It's hard and I know you are hurting, take comfort in friends. Good luck Link to comment
Pixiedoc Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 One would think that a 27 year old would conduct himself a little more accordingly. Again, I must emphasize that his doing this to other girlfriends is a sign of his immaturity and you could do so much better than that. It's hard and I know you are hurting, take comfort in friends. Good luck I agree. So sorry to hear about this and I know it hurts. It's definitely best to wait for him to contact you and in the meantime keep busy. It's very strange for him to be so caring one minute and then just end it - it sounds like the behaviour you might have from a (very) immature 16 year old who has been dating for a few days or weeks, not years. I would be angry and remember you deserve someone who treats you better. Take care. Link to comment
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