ran into my ex gf and her bf

[Hrtsleeve]

The other day i ran into my ex when she was with her bf. We were at a minor leauge baseball game and i was with my boys doing a little drinking having a good time. I didnt really pay too much attention to her. She did walk by me alone and i just waved back when she waved. Then she texted me like "must you act like i am stabbing you in the heart" I didnt text back till the next day saying i dont think i was acting that way at all. She said that i totally ignored her and i should have said hi. What bothers me is that she said it seemed like i was using the "wounded puppy card" i dont think i was and now she thinks i was thinking about her....but in reality i was relaxing with my bros....do you guys just think she was thinking about me?

[Hammerhead]

maybe!, so??..big deal..let her enjoy her new bf, and you keep havin fun with ur bros!

[lila...]

Why is this under "getting back together"? Hopefully you're not thinking of getting back with her? She has a boyfriend now, and hammerhead is right, why does it matter? Let it go...who cares what she thinks...

[ladyblue07]

She probably enjoys the thought of you pining over her, so she interpreted your behavior the way she wanted to. Just laugh it off.

[anbreeuh]

She obviously wanted attention you didn't give her, which leads me to believe that you may be correct in your assumption. However, since all is well and she has moved on, you need to let it go, and write it off as an "unfortunate sighting" or something of that nature. Just have fun, and don't worry about her. She's out of your life for a reason.

[Cnstnt Evolutn]

yeah please, shes trying to make you feel bad...if she wanted to talk she could have come over to you to speak...who says YOU have to be the one to start convos..

[JusticeLaw9]

If she wasn't thinking about you then she wouldn't have sent that ridicilous text message. It would be no need. Me personally, I think she sent the text message trying to get a feel for what you thought of her out with her new bf. Good thing you ignored her. She would've had a field day if she saw that you crumbled over the sight of the new duo. When you didn't, she felt a need to respond; trying to get the rise out of you that failed the first time when you neglected to cave in toward the sight of her and her new bf.

 

If your comfortable with your new bf, new gf or whomever. There's no need to send messages like that. Just say hi and go about your business. You did the right thing by not letting her get to you. Obviously she was trying to make you jealous and it didn't work.