What am I doing wrong??

[makeupgrl99]

OK so about me...I'm a girl, in high 20s. I've been thinking about this for a while and its really bothering me. I have no real friends, I don't have a best friend and I have a really big problem making friends with girls. I'm a very outgoing, social person but when it comes to bonding with girls I have a HUGE problem. I have few really good guy friends, but I wish I had a girl friend, a girl I could call all the time, bond with and call my best friend. Seems like when I go to parties, I'll meet some nice girls but I get so uncomfortable, because I feel like i'm being fake, I don't know what to talk to them about. On many occasions I have went out, met some really nice girls, they have said "oh it was so much nice meeting you, we should get together again!" but then I don't know what the next step is. Do I ask them for their number? and if they give it to me, do I just call the next day and do what? I know this is weird, but I'm not sure why I get so uncomfortable and have such a hard time making friends with girls. I wish I had couple cool gfs to go out with and have girl talks and call my best friend but I don't. Am I alone in this? What am I don't wrong?

[nutbrownhare]

If I've just met someone and thought we could get together because of having similar interests, I've contacted them in advance of an event we'd both like and asked if they want to come.