Heres a question for all you ladies....guys feel free to comment too

[JohnnyJr]

I could use some advice

 

I used to be be somewhat overweight, shy, and uninteresting. I was the guy that girls prayed would not hit on them, so I didn't. Now,I have come into my own, lost some wieght, hit the gym, becoming successful. But, I'm starting to find that I lack experience when it comes to girls.

 

See I have no problem getting a girls interest. This is starting to seem like a flaw. I feel like I put off the vibe of 'player', like I must get all these girls so I must be playing games.

 

Trust me this isn't the case.

 

I know there is some agility needed when it comes to flirting and I am doing fine with that. I guess my questions are -

 

How soon is too soon when asking for a number ( feel free to add tips on that step as I am severely lacking in that realm)

 

And my next question is.....if a girl does not answer, texts, phone calls, in a timely fashion and is not conversational does that mean she is not interested or could she be playing games?

 

I.E. there was a girl I worked with, who flirted with me a lot. She would follow me around, and laugghhh at everything I said etc. so everytually I asked her if she wanted to hangout, which she said yes to, and once we traded numbers she texted me a lottt. But then slowly stopped responding to me.

 

I am a pre-med student and have a 3.7 gpa. But girls make me feel SO DUMB!

[Night Pumpkin]

Dude,

 

You sound like you are trying to figure out flirting by reducing it to some sort of formula. All I have to say is be yourself, and be confident in who you are. You weren't put on this earth to impress someone else. Just be you - and see what happens.

[Pegasus]

Hey m8,

 

read "The System" from Doc Love (I know, I know) - it sounds stupid but he pointed more than few very important points you will need to look for in new relationships and I think he did a pretty decent job. As always, take relationship books with grain of salt - as always. The idea is to take advice that works for you and leave the rest.

 

good luck!

 

P.

[JohnnyJr]

can't I just borrow your copy lol.