Hockey.Chick Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 my boyfriend and i have only been having sex with each other for a little less than 4 months...but it seems like we've already covered everything! obviously there are some new and interesting things out there to try (nothing that crosses the line into creepy or weird fetishes though..and no threesomes!!) that we need to know about. don't get me wrong, the sex is great, but are there any interesting positions or things we could do to spice it up? we're both low on money right now so anything that can help us get creative in the bedroom without buying anything would be extra great. thanks Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Does everything include anal? Link to comment
Hockey.Chick Posted April 18, 2009 Author Share Posted April 18, 2009 Does everything include anal? eeek...that's one thing we both kind of wanted to stay away from. i know it sounds like an oxymoron, me wanting to spice it up but wanting to avoid that, but i dunno, the idea just never appealed to him, and i have tried it and didn't like it Link to comment
Nixee Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Does everything include anal? Ditto this, and define "creepy and weird fetishes"? Do you guys talk dirty to each other, tease... talk about fantasies, etc? Link to comment
Hockey.Chick Posted April 18, 2009 Author Share Posted April 18, 2009 Ditto this, and define "creepy and weird fetishes"? Do you guys talk dirty to each other, tease... talk about fantasies, etc? well like....i wouldnt really want to do like a jesus roleplay or something, haha. that would be creepy. and yeah, we are both pretty vocal in bed. though he tends to repeat the same types of things every time, ya know? Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 let him tie you up, and tease him until he begs to you to have sex with him. After you're done, switch the roles around and let him tease you, lick you, bite you until you can't take it any more and you need him inside you. roleplay: dress in seductive clothes and just play out your naughtiest fantasy in any way you desire. let him mount you from behind, f you and bite your neck just like a lion does to his female when she is in heat. find a beautiful place outside, perhaps near a creek...or a big oak tree...and have sex while being surrounded by the sounds of animals,flowing water and leaves flowing up and down. Do little games throughout the day, like the one who's first to not resist ripping your clothes off loses and the one who wins get to decide the position you will be mating in. This way, you get a nice prize...and the enjoyment of spending the day turned on,purposely teasing each other,rubbing over each other..softly sliding your hand to sensitive spots without actually going too far, knowing it drives each other crazy. Since you mentioned no anal, I guess that is out the question. But its enjoyable if you make sure it goes nice and smooth. You mentioned being vocal, perhaps ask him to tell you in detail just what he wants to do to you,instead of repeating the same thing ? It can be a very arousing thing if the person you wants puts the most need in his/her voice, while whispering the position to mate in,the places to kiss,tease..etc. Link to comment
Nixee Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 and yeah, we are both pretty vocal in bed. though he tends to repeat the same types of things every time, ya know? If you feel like pushing yourself, and him, to the limits... try getting aggressive with him... asking him what he wants, and giving him things until he begs or asks for it, so that you can get him to be more vocal (depending, of course, on if he is more dominant or submissive.... you can also have fun reversing the roles.... good way to open up more in bed) Link to comment
Nixee Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Also, I know you said you don't have a lot of extra cash to spend on toys and outfits, but it still doesn't hurt to ask and know what sorts of fantasies and roleplay looks might turn him on that you could still try to pull off and surprise him. Sometimes it can be something little and very cheap that if done right with the right timing in and unexpected room can be great. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 Since you mentioned no anal, I guess that is out the question. But its enjoyable if you make sure it goes nice and smooth. Agreed, Hockey.Chick - I also didn't like it at all until fairly recently, mostly because whenever I tried it the man was in control, it hurt like crazy and I couldn't see the attraction. If you change your mind about giving it another go, try being on top and use too much lube it makes a massive difference when you're the one who is in control. A lot more relaxing for a start Link to comment
Hockey.Chick Posted April 18, 2009 Author Share Posted April 18, 2009 Agreed, Hockey.Chick - I also didn't like it at all until fairly recently, mostly because whenever I tried it the man was in control, it hurt like crazy and I couldn't see the attraction. If you change your mind about giving it another go, try being on top and use too much lube it makes a massive difference when you're the one who is in control. A lot more relaxing for a start hmmmmm...possibility! Link to comment
g84 Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 I don't really have experience, but i kind of liked what Lamour Detruit wrote about trying it outside, surrounded by nature. It sounds like it would be a really nice experience, while not crossing into anything that would feel creepy lol. If you could find a peaceful place like that, it would be interesting to try. Link to comment
Mia_of_Doom Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 We don't know what "everything" and "creepy or weird" fetishes are to you. If you want specific suggestions, you gotta let us know what's already been done and out of the question. (Not just saying that 'cause I'm a pervert.) Link to comment
Lainers Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 well like....i wouldnt really want to do like a jesus roleplay or something, haha. That would be creepy. why not a jesus roleplay?! Link to comment
Hockey.Chick Posted April 19, 2009 Author Share Posted April 19, 2009 why not a jesus roleplay?! ahh oh dear...don't get me started Link to comment
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