Sn0man Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I've been seeing 2 different women for about a month. To understand this thread at all, first read this: Then this: ] Then read this: You only need to read the original posts. So anyways, the first girl, though i've had my reservations about her, she called me tonight asking if I would come out and see her at this pub. I was hesitant, because i've been hearing rumors about her hitting on my female friends bf's. But I have been the subject of rumor before and know how nasty and untrue they can be so I didn't want to just take what I had heard for face value and wanted the info first hand. So I get there, and she's hanging off some other dude. Seriously. First she tells me it's a friend of her's from out of town, but it doesn't take long for me to see that he's probably more than that. She basically blows me off the whole time im there - I went there alone as well so had no backup. Sure, she shot me a smile and a hug once or twice, but other than that, I was chopped liver. I made the best of it, but at about 1AM I decided to just take off, because i've really had enough. She's a flirtatious tramp and I don't know why the hell I even bothered. I don't know why she even bothers calling me or saying she wants to see me at all. She's gort a whole harem of men chasing her around - and i'm not one to play those stupid games. So what the hell am I doing? And why the hell does it bother me so much? Arrrrgh!! Guess i'm back to square 1. Time to find some new ones. Link to comment
ToodlePip Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I made the best of it, but at about 1AM I decided to just take off, because i've really had enough. I admire your dedication! Link to comment
MinziGirl Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Because you are perhaps the only one who is still standing up to her charms while most red-blooded men have already fallen for it and that is not going down too well with her... If you want to be mean & see the better show, keep doing what you are already doing. Better, ignore her. Link to comment
Sn0man Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 I admire your dedication! lol thanks Link to comment
Sn0man Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 Because you are perhaps the only one who is still standing up to her charms while most red-blooded men have already fallen for it and that is not going down too well with her... If you want to be mean & see the better show, keep doing what you are already doing. Better, ignore her. Yeah, I Think i'm done with this one too. I really, really, really need to work on my ability to judge womens' characters. Apparently i'm terrible at it. Link to comment
Sn0man Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 . If you want to be mean & see the better show, keep doing what you are already doing. Not sure what you mean by this exactly, could you explain? Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Not a big deal, as long you don't go back to this girl again. No way for you to know at first how she was, but now you do....so you'd be a fool to go back IMO. Doesn't sound like you're a fool. Link to comment
Sn0man Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 Not a big deal, as long you don't go back to this girl again. No way for you to know at first how she was, but now you do....so you'd be a fool to go back IMO. Doesn't sound like you're a fool. I appreciate that. I'm done with this one. I don't do these games anymore, they're beneath me. Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 i agree, you don't sound like a fool. you just saw last night she is not the woman for you. NEXT! Link to comment
Sn0man Posted April 15, 2009 Author Share Posted April 15, 2009 i agree, you don't sound like a fool. you just saw last night she is not the woman for you. NEXT! Sigh. Dating is such a hassle, dontcha think? Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 i know..... you don't have to tell me that!! sigh. Link to comment
MinziGirl Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Not sure what you mean by this exactly, could you explain? If she calls you back, it means you are not calling her, right? If she wants to get into contact with you, it means that you are not comtacting her, right? What i mean is: You go on your life... lets see then how far & wide will she come to getting a response from you... Link to comment
servedcold Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Look at it half-full, you wasted relatively little time and money. I've been where you are so many, many times in life, and can tell you there is no foolproof way to tell the quality from the trash right off the bat. People aren't stupid, know to at least put a good foot forward before showing their true colors, and the worst ones are often the most charming on the front end. In all likelihood, this girl really does like you, but in her twisted character, doesn't know how to show it other than trying to manipulate you and make you jealous. She has probably gotten some positive feedback from weak men doing this, don't give her any more. But don't make an issue of it either, that will just stroke her ego and give her a chance to rationalize that you are the jealous or controlling type. The only way for you to win this little charade is to fade out entirely and ignore her. She will seem like she doesn't care, but trust me, it will bother her. Link to comment
Trip McNealy Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I've come accross so many girls like this. They get high off of attention from multiple guys. Link to comment
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