Wanting something for too long

[ays]

I've wanted a relationship for so long I think I've lost all perspective.

I imagine that it is impossible.

I'm so sick of being let sown than when im single i feel more secure because then I cannot be hurt.I assume they are only after one thing but care nothing for me.

I'm sick of the chase.

I'm sick of having to worry about it.

I'm so sick of it i don't think i want it anymore.

[CallingAllAngels]

sorry you feel this way. I believe there is someone for everyone. You'll find yours.

[tulipsfav]

I've wanted a relationship for so long I think I've lost all perspective.

I imagine that it is impossible.

I'm so sick of being let sown than when im single i feel more secure because then I cannot be hurt.I assume they are only after one thing but care nothing for me.

I'm sick of the chase.

I'm sick of having to worry about it.

I'm so sick of it i don't think i want it anymore.

 

Hi am so sorry you feel like this. In my experience someone always comes along when you least expect it. Concentrate on yourself, building up your confidence. Men pick up on neediness and desperation. It is not impossible. Yes i have always wanted to meet mr right get married and have children. You now have to concentrate on other aspects of your life, not just meeting someone and being in a relationship.

[ays]

Thanks.

I do have a great job. good friends and a life. I have everything you can achieve by your own efforts. Its just I can count on no one to put effort into being with me.

I have had so many broken romances, stolen looks that came to nothing.

I have a had guys tell me they think the world of me, i'm beautiful, funny blah blah blah. All lies. Why bother lying to me? Why bother chasing. I'd rather be left alone than messed about. I never messed a man about. i would consider it cruel and a waste of time.

[CallingAllAngels]

Thanks.

I do have a great job. good friends and a life. I have everything you can achieve by your own efforts. Its just I can count on no one to put effort into being with me.

I have had so many broken romances, stolen looks that came to nothing.

I have a had guys tell me they think the world of me, i'm beautiful, funny blah blah blah. All lies. Why bother lying to me? Why bother chasing. I'd rather be left alone than messed about. I never messed a man about. i would consider it cruel and a waste of time.

 

There is an old saying "It's better to be alone than to wish you were alone."

[ghost69]

i think your problem is that you are chasing. that will burn you out. you have to love live, live it having fun, and if you meet someone you meet someone. that's how i do it. i don't get stressed about women. usually after i start dating one i get stressed. lol *sarcasm*

[Ammy]

Thanks.

I do have a great job. good friends and a life. I have everything you can achieve by your own efforts. Its just I can count on no one to put effort into being with me.

I have had so many broken romances, stolen looks that came to nothing.

I have a had guys tell me they think the world of me, i'm beautiful, funny blah blah blah. All lies. Why bother lying to me? Why bother chasing. I'd rather be left alone than messed about. I never messed a man about. i would consider it cruel and a waste of time.

 

I completely relate!

 

I'm just clinging onto the hope that there is indeed someone out there for everyone... Very hard to cling onto when it never seems to happen... but maybe eventually it WILL?

 

Good luck!!!!

 

Ammy

[tulipsfav]

Thanks.

I do have a great job. good friends and a life. I have everything you can achieve by your own efforts. Its just I can count on no one to put effort into being with me.

I have had so many broken romances, stolen looks that came to nothing.

I have a had guys tell me they think the world of me, i'm beautiful, funny blah blah blah. All lies. Why bother lying to me? Why bother chasing. I'd rather be left alone than messed about. I never messed a man about. i would consider it cruel and a waste of time.

 

Maybe its just that you havent met "the one". I do believe that there is someone for everyone, i thought i had met him( no such luck). Its the lies that is really hard to take, though maybe they were not lying to you. Its that wanting to share your dreams, excitement ,with someone special in your life, i understand how you feel. Feel free to p/m me if you want to chat. Would you ever consider online dating?

[louhere]

I completely relate to everything the OP had to say - I have a life, have a successful career and enjoy my self but I cant seem to find a partner who is loyal and completely compatible. It is so difficult - i am exhausted by the rejection and lack of motivation!