Qut81 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I met a guy on Friday that seems nice. Problem is he is cop, detective. I thought he was lying until he texted me today and told me he was on survelience (sorry I am the worst speller). Anyway, the first question he asked was if I do drugs. I have mentioned it before but lets just say I had to lie. I dont want to start dating someone lying and this is not something I can give up right now. Ive tried but I dont think I can do again, at least not right now. Anyway, theres no way I can tell him that, orange is def not my color. Should I go on a date with him or just stop communication now? Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Next time he calls and ask whats up.. just tell him youre blowing some lines.and see how he responds.. jk..lol seriously.. if you like him. go out and see what he is like.. if he keeps asking personal question to early on.. then rethink the whole thing... maybe he asked, because he does drugs.. Link to comment
indierockgrl Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 personally, i wouldnt date a detective.... i would wonder what kind of info he would be trying to dig up... Thats just me.... Link to comment
sosilver Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I dont think you should continue, it will add more stress on you trying to keep up with this, and from my experience cops can usually sense when a persons hiding something.... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 wait for the cute guy that smokes doobies. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I wouldn't persue this. Anytime you feel the need to be untruthful, it just leads to more cover-ups, and where is that headed? Link to comment
Qut81 Posted April 14, 2009 Author Share Posted April 14, 2009 Next time he calls and ask whats up.. just tell him youre blowing some lines.and see how he responds.. jk..lol seriously.. if you like him. go out and see what he is like.. if he keeps asking personal question to early on.. then rethink the whole thing... maybe he asked, because he does drugs.. HAHAHA nooo nothing that serious...just some mary jane. hehe I doubt he does drugs since hes a cop. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 HAHAHA nooo nothing that serious...just some mary jane. hehe I doubt he does drugs since hes a cop. mary jane is not a drug... less harmfull then cigi.. at least where i come from good ole PNW.. youde be suprised on how many people smoke dubbies.. i know a few CT troppers.. they smoke dubbies all the time.. its like alcohol to most people... Link to comment
Qut81 Posted April 14, 2009 Author Share Posted April 14, 2009 wait for the cute guy that smokes doobies. I do prefer a guy that doesnt smoke cause if I do date someone that does, I end up doing it A LOT more than I want. Maybe one day I will grow up and quit. Link to comment
nowhereman7 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I dunno my dad was a cop of rank and he smoked green. Just tell him if you like him. If not tell him peace out. Link to comment
servedcold Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I'd move on and forget about this one. Big red flag asking personal questions before even having a single date. Most cops are brainwashed by their training to believe that marijuana is some kind of cultural evil, in addition to being really pedantic about it being illegal. A guy who asks these types of questions so early is likely to be controlling. Link to comment
Qut81 Posted April 14, 2009 Author Share Posted April 14, 2009 ^^ Thats true. He seemed like a nice guy but I dont think he would be ok with it. I mean he asked me straight out after JUST meeting me. His exact words, "Im a cop, I work with the feds. I just need to know now if you do any drugs" I was caught off guard but I said, "me? no way" (LOL) Link to comment
jul-els Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 ^^ Thats true. He seemed like a nice guy but I dont think he would be ok with it. I mean he asked me straight out after JUST meeting me. His exact words, "Im a cop, I work with the feds. I just need to know now if you do any drugs" I was caught off guard but I said, "me? no way" (LOL) Sounds like he's being pretty straightforward about not wanting to date someone who does drugs of any kind. Next. Link to comment
alcide Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Sometimes the man know you on that, and he is just coming after you in a smart way, to arrest you, havent you ever see someone love betrayed them, trust no one, especially those batty boy. If you no you on that, let the man flow out of your way, eventually he will no. Link to comment
WendyO Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 I dont know why you believe he's a cop. Just because he texted you he was on surveillance? lol. Do you have his last name? Call the station for him - see if he even exists. Regardless, I have known and have dated a lot of LEO's. They don't start probing you for your drug use like that. I think he's phony and a weirdo. I'd take a pass. Link to comment
sosilver Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Either hes a phony, or just showing off that hes a cop... Link to comment
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