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I met a guy on Friday that seems nice. Problem is he is cop, detective. I thought he was lying until he texted me today and told me he was on survelience (sorry I am the worst speller). Anyway, the first question he asked was if I do drugs. I have mentioned it before but lets just say I had to lie. I dont want to start dating someone lying and this is not something I can give up right now. Ive tried but I dont think I can do again, at least not right now. Anyway, theres no way I can tell him that, orange is def not my color. Should I go on a date with him or just stop communication now?

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Next time he calls and ask whats up.. just tell him youre blowing some lines.and see how he responds.. jk..lol

 

seriously.. if you like him. go out and see what he is like.. if he keeps asking personal question to early on.. then rethink the whole thing...

 

maybe he asked, because he does drugs..

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Next time he calls and ask whats up.. just tell him youre blowing some lines.and see how he responds.. jk..lol

 

seriously.. if you like him. go out and see what he is like.. if he keeps asking personal question to early on.. then rethink the whole thing...

 

maybe he asked, because he does drugs..

 

HAHAHA nooo nothing that serious...just some mary jane. hehe

I doubt he does drugs since hes a cop.

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HAHAHA nooo nothing that serious...just some mary jane. hehe

I doubt he does drugs since hes a cop.

 

mary jane is not a drug... less harmfull then cigi.. at least where i come from good ole PNW.. youde be suprised on how many people smoke dubbies..

 

i know a few CT troppers.. they smoke dubbies all the time.. its like alcohol to most people...

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I'd move on and forget about this one. Big red flag asking personal questions before even having a single date. Most cops are brainwashed by their training to believe that marijuana is some kind of cultural evil, in addition to being really pedantic about it being illegal. A guy who asks these types of questions so early is likely to be controlling.

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^^ Thats true. He seemed like a nice guy but I dont think he would be ok with it. I mean he asked me straight out after JUST meeting me. His exact words, "Im a cop, I work with the feds. I just need to know now if you do any drugs" I was caught off guard but I said, "me? no way" (LOL)

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^^ Thats true. He seemed like a nice guy but I dont think he would be ok with it. I mean he asked me straight out after JUST meeting me. His exact words, "Im a cop, I work with the feds. I just need to know now if you do any drugs" I was caught off guard but I said, "me? no way" (LOL)

 

Sounds like he's being pretty straightforward about not wanting to date someone who does drugs of any kind. Next.

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Sometimes the man know you on that, and he is just coming after you in a smart way, to arrest you, havent you ever see someone love betrayed them, trust no one, especially those batty boy. If you no you on that, let the man flow out of your way, eventually he will no.

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I dont know why you believe he's a cop. Just because he texted you he was on surveillance? lol. Do you have his last name? Call the station for him - see if he even exists.

 

Regardless, I have known and have dated a lot of LEO's. They don't start probing you for your drug use like that.

 

I think he's phony and a weirdo. I'd take a pass.

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