jul-els Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 He was (unfortunately) being dead serious I don't doubt that. Still being a dork. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Yeah, I agree that was pretty clueless of him. Did his undies and socks match? lol. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Ok, I don't want to generalize but an ex of mine was this way and he was in one word: immature. He'd say stuff like that. I try to make them look decent together too but I don't see anything wrong with wearing a polka dot panty with a beige (solid colored) bra lol. Or even neon green. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I think that a bar and panties should match, it is more than just her not matching, it says something about her mind state and her own desire to match. It has been my experience that when girls care about the small things like that then they have a tendency to take better care of themselves. Is this superficial? Yes, it is. Link to comment
sosilver Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 If it was quickie or impromtu I wouldnt care if I had on matching undies, and hope the guy wouldnt care either...And if it was something planned, then yes, I would probably get out matching ones. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Sorry, just your title made me laugh. Who was this guy? Most women don't wear matching underwear all the time. I used to match all the time- up until my mid twenties, and then I stopped caring. lol It's kind of sad actually- in a symbolic way. Perhaps I should go back to the days when I cared. My husband never cared either way, but I used to. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I don't know a man that really cares, personally I'm OCD about my bra and panties matching, but as for men.....I think usually they're just happy they got that far Link to comment
Iwantittoend Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 When I'm at the point of undressing a girl I honestly could careless about what the girl is wearing underneath. I'm surprised a guy would actually say something about it. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 The bras that come in sets are uncomfortable. They make my boobs look bad I think. They're either ridiculously padded and not padded at all, making them very uncomfortable and not attractive, imo. i agree with that, i rarely buy actually sets...just matching colors...black bra/ black panties....beige bra/beige panties.....white bra/white panties....ya know... as long as the color matches I'm ok. Link to comment
g84 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I don't really buy matching sets either. For some reason when it comes to bras, I tend to buy just a few simple colors, but with panties, i like more variety and different colors. I guess this is why I likely won't match most of the time. I don't think anyone should read too much into this kind of thing, because it doesn't really indicate anything particular in my opinion lol. Link to comment
ButterflyWrists Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 what if you were going comando? would they care that the top didnt match? sorry but that person was really childish. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 what if you were going comando? would they care that the top didnt match? sorry but that person was really childish. Haha! Good (and hilarious) point. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 I think that a bar and panties should match, it is more than just her not matching, it says something about her mind state and her own desire to match. It has been my experience that when girls care about the small things like that then they have a tendency to take better care of themselves. Is this superficial? Yes, it is. Yes, superficial. I take GREAT care of myself, although I don't always give a crap about matching my bra and panties. I do put thought into which ones I put on (like, I don't just grab two random pieces from the drawer, I look through them and consciously make a decision about them), but I don't see it as overlooking the "small things" just because I don't match them. And honestly, I think a guy's standards are too high if he expects women to match their bra and panties. That's something the media made them think was normal, and in the real world, men like you must be severely disappointed quite often because apparently it's not common for women to care about this matching thing. Link to comment
Mantis Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 I wouldn't judge him too harshly. I made a topic a while back asking this exact same question, about whether girls wear matching underwear. It's not that I expected them in a "standards", I just thought that might be how it works. Link to comment
servedcold Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 I wouldn't judge him too harshly. I made a topic a while back asking this exact same question, about whether girls wear matching underwear. It's not that I expected them in a "standards", I just thought that might be how it works. You know what, I probably -would- say something if she were wearing a sexy red lace bra with granny panties, or one of those imposing support bras and a sexy thong. Nice visual eh? Link to comment
gilfer Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Women wear underwear that dont match? isnt that like wearing two different socks on each foot? Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 Women wear underwear that dont match? isnt that like wearing two different socks on each foot? I certainly hope you're joking... Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 My boyfriend doesn't seem to care, he'll say some look sexy if they do but never really minds if I don't have a matching set on. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 19, 2009 Author Share Posted April 19, 2009 My boyfriend doesn't seem to care, he'll say some look sexy if they do but never really minds if I don't have a matching set on. This has always been my experience, with the exception of the loser of a guy who helped me start this post in the first place. That's why he had me so confused, I'd never had a guy make a big deal out of it before! Link to comment
g84 Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 Maybe he was so nervous about being with you that he just blurted out the most random thing, just for the sake of saying something lol. That might have been it Link to comment
Ignotus Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 He may have been serious, but I doubt that many guys are like that. As far as it would go with me, I honestly don't care. I think its rather considerate and attractive that my girlfriend puts on lingerie. Link to comment
anggrace Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 HA! What a mood killer. That would of set me back like two dates. Link to comment
NowandZen Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 I prefer the matching set. Having said that, his timing was pretty awful. As far as comfort, etc. Ok, in those old movies, when the woman went to the bathroom, what do you think she was doing? She was putting on her uncomfortable, sexy underwear, taking off the girdle and support hose. Total wear time - less than 30 minutes. I would consider it part of the seduction, but not expect it every time. Link to comment
Daria_Lane Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 Good thing I dont date dorks. "mr and mrs matching" will be on the ground in mins, why bother? Link to comment
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