XxlollipopxX Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 ok, so ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years, were both 18 n finishing high school soon. I love him to bits and always want to please him, He gets annoyed by this as he feels he wants me to just please myself first and then he'll be happy. I feel stressed because we wanna go to the same college and spend de rest of our lives together, I know no man will ever make me as happy as he does, but i feel like i am ruining us?..I know i should just do what i wanna do but i cant help feel selfish and guilty. Please if you have any advice on or experience on this, id love to hear it! Link to comment
XxlollipopxX Posted April 14, 2009 Author Share Posted April 14, 2009 ok, so ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years, were both 18 n finishing high school soon. I love him to bits and always want to please him, He gets annoyed by this as he feels he wants me to just please myself first and then he'll be happy. I feel stressed because we wanna go to the same college and spend de rest of our lives together, I know no man will ever make me as happy as he does, but i feel like i am ruining us?..I know i should just do what i wanna do but i cant help feel selfish and guilty. Please if you have any advice on or experience on this, id love to hear it! Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 You just have to relax. Enjoy each day with him to the fullest, dont worry, dont fret. If its meant to be it's meant to be, doesnt mean it wont take work and effort but worrying about pleasing him isnt the main thing. He wants you to be happy, he obviously loves you a lot, remember to concentrate on you as well. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 You just have to relax. Enjoy each day with him to the fullest, dont worry, dont fret. If its meant to be it's meant to be, doesnt mean it wont take work and effort but worrying about pleasing him isnt the main thing. He wants you to be happy, he obviously loves you a lot, remember to concentrate on you as well. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 He is annoyed because you always want to please him??????? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 He is annoyed because you always want to please him??????? Link to comment
jsx730 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 He is annoyed because you always want to please him??????? Translated into Manspeak: She's smothering him. Link to comment
jsx730 Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 He is annoyed because you always want to please him??????? Translated into Manspeak: She's smothering him. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Translated into Manspeak: She's smothering him. Thanks for the translation! Is this the case OP? Are you smothering him too much? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Translated into Manspeak: She's smothering him. Thanks for the translation! Is this the case OP? Are you smothering him too much? Link to comment
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