Important question. Need some female perspective.

[maverick554]

So I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks now, and I think she really likes me and is girlfriend material, but I always second guess as to whether she really does like me. So I guess I'm looking for some of the signs to look for that she would exhibit to show she is genuinely interested. In other words what would show me that she really likes me? Any input would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[annie24]

you can always ask if she wants to be your gf!!!

 

ok - so since you want a checklist..... does she agree to see you when you ask her out (or suggest other plans if she can't make that day/time?) does she sound happy to hear from you? does she seem to enjoy spending time with you? does she return your phone calls and emails in a timely fashion? does she initiate ever just to say hi? does she seem happy and open to being affectionate with you, like holding your hand, kissing, etc...? if yes to all of these things, then you are on your way to a gf!

[qqqq]

If she sounds happy to speak with you, replies to your text messages fairly quickly and phone calls, sends you texts for no reason, spends hours chatting to you online (if you do that), when out holding hands, touchy feely, kissing, playing with her hair sometimes, when you make plans shes keen and interested but if she cant she offers another day to do it (not "maybe another time"), asks you to do something.

 

Or as annie said, if you feel strongly enough for her and want her to be your girlfriend, ask!! if she is wanting that same thing with you, she'll be pleasantly suprised and happy.

[Scorpion Fury]

have you kissed her yet? held her hand? anything?

 

does she initiate the dates and phone contact? does she offer to ever pay?