why does it hurt when...

[sweetgirl141]

its what you wanted and its for the best? I love my ex-boyfriend and we had even talked about marriage. The thing is, he just didnt treat me right and I had had enough. I wont go into great detail but it was like i had to fit this mold of a perfect girlfriend and i got repremanded (not in a physically abusive way but def in a mentally one) when I wasnt. When we were good, it was just good, but when we disagreed or argued he would call me names, talk down to me, and even go days on end without calling. He didnt respect the fact that I was really busy with school and would make me feel guilty for doing my homework instead of hanging out with him. Plus, he just didnt make me feel special. He didnt really do anything nice for me or compliment me.

 

I think it just hurts because I spent the last 3 years of my life with this guy and invested sooooooo much time and energy when he was half assin it. I tried to make it work. I guess the biggest hurt and slap in the face was that he never called, texted, emailed, etc to let me know it just was over. After not speaking for 4 days (he said really hurtful things to me and i wasnt going to speak to him until he apologized) I signed into myspace and saw he had deleted me as his friend and changed his status to "single". I just dont understand why Im upset about all this.

[xmrth]

It's normal to feel this way, absolutely... even though it wasn't meant to be (it doesn't sound like it was, really) it still can hurt, but you're on your way to bigger and better things! Just ignore his MS and continue to move on like you are...