IhaveCtrl Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Is it normal to not talk to someone everyday when you first start dating? So if you text her and say goodnight, which we have done to each other lately and you dont get a response at all and dont hear from her the next day at all do you think she is blowing you off? Link to comment
Lauren8785 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Yes its normal, if you constantly talk everyday, how else are you suppose to learn about one another??? Also its important to be your own person outside of a relationship. Do your own things. As they say absense makes the heart grow fonder! Link to comment
PoisonIvy Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Yes, it's normal. Whatever is good for both of you. Typically, I don't like talking to anyone every day because I don't have much to talk about that way. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 I've heard mixed responses to this question in the past... But in every relationship I've ever been in, in the beginning stages of dating we've always talked every single day. Honestly, if someone I was dating didn't want to at least chat and see how my day was going, I wouldn't feel they were truly interested in me. It doesn't mean you have to talk for hours every day...even a 10-minute conversation to say, "Hey, how's it going" is just fine. But I think it's a bad sign if you start dating someone and have whole days where there's no contact whatsoever. Link to comment
Lauren8785 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Exactly, its the same with friends. I don't talk to my friends everyday because then I would have nothing to tell them. I talk or hang out with them every few days or maybe a couple weeks, this way it gives me a lot to talk about and we're still just as close!!! You don't need to be with someone everyday in order to be close to someone!!! Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 It really depends on the two people involved. However, I wouldn;t like that. I think what is best is one to two dates a week for the first month. I typically don't talk on the phone when we can meet face to face. Link to comment
PinkStripes Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 This makes me feel better. I was worried about how much contacting is enough. Link to comment
Latina25 Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 Shes not blowing you off but she may be playing hard to get. You should probably do the same..i know it sucks the way it feels but if you ever heard of the RULES?? you DO NOT call or txt a potential grlfrnd everyday because you are killing the intrigue. Make her want you, make her call you. She will if you stop trying to keep in contact at all times. But also, very important, if she dont call/txt in 2 or 3 days, you should probably txt her and have a good excuse...CALL WITH A PURPOSE! because if you dont call in more than 3 days she might start thinkin you really dont like her. Trust me...it works! Link to comment
IhaveCtrl Posted April 12, 2009 Author Share Posted April 12, 2009 I will keep you posted and tell you if it works or not. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 Shes not blowing you off but she may be playing hard to get. You should probably do the same..i know it sucks the way it feels but if you ever heard of the RULES?? you DO NOT call or txt a potential grlfrnd everyday because you are killing the intrigue. Rule? A guy did this to me once and it annoyed me because he was sending mixed signals, and we stopped dating shortly after because he didn't appear to be interested anymore so I moved on. May work with some girls, just be warned that it doesn't work with all of them. Link to comment
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