pike2350 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 I have found myself having a major sexual connection with a co-worker. Our friendship blossomed out of her divorce and me just being a good friend for her to listen to. As time went on sex topics were discussed, mostly because she had complained about her ex-husband and his lack or libido.....I've had this conversation before with other women who I was friends with. Well as time went on, it was very apparent the desire had grown between us. Now, I'm have a g/f and am trying to see if her and I can work out (long story there) Anyway, I can't ignore the sexual chemistry I have with my co-worker. It's gotten so bad I've raced home after work to masterbate thinking about her. We find ourselves teasing each other at work...subtly and it's just been almost impossible to stop. Has anyone ever had such a strong sexual attraction to someone off limits? Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 yes. it's hard when you click with that person! just do what you can, try to limit your interactions with her. and besides, even if you were single right now and could date her, i think in some ways, the fantasy is hotter than the reality. that's what happened to me when my off limits guy suddenly wasn't off limits anymore..... and he did not meet my expectations, WHAT SO EVER. Link to comment
Roberto34 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Hey, was that you that cut me off in traffic the other day?? Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 To much like cheating for me to do what you have described. Talking about sexual stuff with another woman with my SO right there isn't something I would do. Annie is right that the fantasy is often way better than reality. This woman sound vulnerable and needs to feel wanted by a man right now anyways. Be her friend and concentrate on the relationship you do have right now.....good or bad. lost Link to comment
Anna. Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 yes. it's hard when you click with that person! just do what you can, try to limit your interactions with her. and besides, even if you were single right now and could date her, i think in some ways, the fantasy is hotter than the reality. that's what happened to me when my off limits guy suddenly wasn't off limits anymore..... and he did not meet my expectations, WHAT SO EVER. I can surely relate to that! I wanted my bf so badly and was ridiculously sexually attracted to him until I got him. Shoot, we even had a few ridiculously hot hook-ups, before we were together. Now we have a sub-par sexual relationship at best. Sometimes I still even look at him on his good days and am sooooo attracted to him, but it's just not gratifying at all, really it's been that way from the moment we were legitimately in a relationship. *edit: ok that sounded harsh, I love him and we have to work on getting some passion into our sexual relationship, like it was when we were single. we weren't cheating on anybody either. He was just my brother's friend and one of my best friend's ex's and we didn't see each other much, so the sex was sort of taboo and very passionate and exciting. Link to comment
gilfer Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Its probably because of the thrill of the chase, knowing that its taboo to have sex with her. Such sexual connections rarely last too long if you choose to indulge in it. Link to comment
Katie3 Posted April 12, 2009 Share Posted April 12, 2009 yea, some one way more off limets. he was nine years older, a child hood friend, i was under the legal age an he was getting married! Link to comment
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