Mantis Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 So as you can probably guess, I'm a virgin. But I've just been doing some thinking. They way people talk about sex, I just feel like it can't possibly live up to all the hype. Am I wrong? Link to comment
Mutley Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I think you'll just have to find out, eh? Link to comment
tulipsfav Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Absolutely nothing special. Sorry Link to comment
sosilver Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 It can be an amazing experience and other times, not so much. It heavily depends on who you are with and your feelings for that person. Link to comment
CAgirl Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Don't knock it till you try it! Link to comment
Rose21 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 No, sex is deffinatly not everything. It's all about finding the right person, having a connection with them, and THEN the sex can be amazing depending on the love and connection you share. Like for me, I could never have sex with someone I wasn't in love with or commited to. Sex without commitment and love, would be extremly bland and pointless to me. However, sex with my boyfriend whom I am totaly commited to and head over heels in love with, is GREAT. It just depends. I'd say wait for someone who comes along that you want to be with. Don't just go out and find someone for a one night stand, if you do that I promise it wont be good. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I can definitely live without sex. I don't think it'd be good if I didn't have a strong connection to my partner. But, there really isnt a feeling like it. Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I think the FIRST time you have sexed is overhyped. The actual having sex, for me, is everything its hyped up to be and more. But there are alot of factors, and people view sex differently, treat it differently, want it under different circumstances, etc. Link to comment
Lusif Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I've only had sex with the one guy, whom I happen to love so it's amazing. There were a few months of sexual tension before we did it, so that helped as well. For me personally, getting to know him and establishing an emotional connection really helped. It's just incredibly intense and intimate. Some people apparently can have amazing sex with someone they've just met, but I personally don't think that'd be up my street. It also helps when you've been sleeping with the person for some time, because you learn what works, what each other love etc! So basically, the right sex IS amazing and totally worth the wait. Link to comment
COtuner Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Depends on who you're with. Sex for the sake of sex with just someone isn't as good as other things in life I love. Link to comment
amipushy Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Sex is great, but its making love that every person dreams of - and it really is fantastic! Link to comment
grymoire Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 sex with human beings? yea it is really good. Link to comment
top bloke Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Good sex is fatastic!! You need your sesnses to be satisfied..touch,smell,taste,sound,emotionally and you have to be aroused. For this to happen you need someone genuinely nice to please you right on all levels. Unfortunately too many over state its glamour. You can get hungry for sex but once its satisfied and reality sets in you realise its real worth. A passing moment of mutual intense passion Link to comment
Mia_of_Doom Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 You and your partner will definitely have to know each others' bodies well in order to push all the right buttons AND have great chemistry and attraction to each other for the sex to be amazing. But even when everything doesn't line up perfectly, it's still good. Link to comment
meepmeep20 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 eh, so so for me. it depends on your feelings for the other person. i think it's mostly psychological. Link to comment
MyheartorHis Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 For me, it's like pringles... once you have good sex with someone (which sometimes, it's hard to find someone who you ACTUALLY enjoy having sex with) you just can't stop. It's not what I first expected, especially since my first was awful. But once I had sex with someone who A) knew what they were doing B) we were passionate and I felt very strongly towards him as he did me, I definitely changed my views on sex. I bet your first time you'll either think Wow this was way better than I could have imagined or * * * I couldn't careless to ever do that again. Haha Link to comment
Lusif Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 I first got sexual at 17. Over a matter of months it progressed from kissing to touching to removing clothes to fingering/handjobs to oral. I lost my virginity at 19, though, and in those two years I'd kissed a fair few guys, 'done stuff' with a small handful and finally worked up to sex with my current boyfriend, after we'd been 'doing stuff' for about three months. So I think I enjoyed it because I took time to hone my skills at the small stuff, get comfortable with my sexuality and body, as well as guys' bodies! It just felt right to progress to sexual intercourse, because I had the confidence. Link to comment
jenny_mcs Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Yes, sex really is THAT good. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 If by sex you mean just intercourse, no I can live without it. If you mean the whole experince with all the foreplay and etc, I can say with the right partner it can be FANTASTIC! Like most people I had some unbeleivably amazing sex nights! however, they don't happen very often! Link to comment
Rose21 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Yeah thats the same with me It's not JUST sex. It's the foreplay and connection before hand. And the passion and connection with your partner! Link to comment
dragon lady Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 I have to say, it's pretty damn good IF he knows what he's doing. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Lol that too. Although my boyfriend was a total virgin before me. But we also had 2 months of foreplay and sexual tension, and he love and passion for eachother, so it was AMAZING our first time! Even though it was his first time Link to comment
ScorpiGal83 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 MMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmm YES. It's electric. Link to comment
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