lifeiscash Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I'm done.. no longer am I going to trust a woman. Why would I? It is stated that 60% of women cheat at some time during their marriage. link removed It is stated 40% of women give birth out of wed-lock link removed It is stated that the divorce rate in America at this time is 50% link removed With the increase in technology, instant communication, and how woman have evolved financially, independently, proactivley, and *subject to argument* predominantly in our culture; There is no way I will trust a women ever again. We as humans like to think that we would do the right thing, but genetics and emotions obviously can get in the way. And with the evolution of our younger generation, this society is in trouble. Say goodbye to the days of just one partner. Goodbye old American values, and hello Europe. Link to comment
avman Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 If you read the statistics on men you will find something very similar. So why should women trust men by the same token? Thus why should anybody trust anybody? Thus why even talk to anyone? See how silly this can become? You can't point to this kind of stuff and try to live your life by it. Certain people you will run accross will end up being untrustworthy. When you realize that about someone, then move on from them. But don't let it color your whole perspective on humanity. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 If you read the statistics on men you will find something very similar. So why should women trust men by the same token? Thus why should anybody trust anybody? Thus why even talk to anyone? See how silly this can become? You can't point to this kind of stuff and try to live your life by it. Certain people you will run accross will end up being untrustworthy. When you realize that about someone, then move on from them. But don't let it color your whole perspective on humanity. Spot on........ Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Go with that thinking and see how it works out for you. I trust men. Men have constantly screwed me over in life. Not a single marriage in my family has lasted. All because the men have ran away once something better came around. However, I do not put the burden of others on my boyfriend. Who I trust completely. Some people in this world are rotten. I will not condemn everyone to "save" myself from coming accross those few. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Why not trust them... if you search hard enough and weed thru the bad ones.. you just might find that other 40%... and even if they cheat.. never wish that on anyone or hope it never happens to me.. but if it does just move on and find a new lady.. i would rather try and fail and not try at all... Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 It is stated 40% of women give birth out of wed-lock link removed I'm having trouble understanding what having children out of wed-lock has to do with women being untrustworthy. Most likely it means that the man didn't want to marry her. Who's untrustworthy then? Goodbye old American values, and hello Europe. American values?? Don't even get me started. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I trust people until they do something that makes me not trust them anymore. People are people. No one can ever be 100% percent perfect or trustworthy. There are no guarantees that someone will never hurt you. But most women arent BAD and ARE trustworth. Like Avman said, you can move away and onwards from these people and find people who you CAN trust,. Link to comment
lifeiscash Posted April 9, 2009 Author Share Posted April 9, 2009 Yeah, I agree. Just throwing that statistics out there. I'm sure the men's are in the same boat. There really is no point in even talking to anyone or establishing a relationship if no one is really moral anyway. This society is evolving to be more selfish. There are exceptions but rare to find. Might as well be animals, oh wait we already are. Just bred and move on, no emotional attatchment, what we men want anyway.*** Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Yeah, I agree. Just throwing that statistics out there. I'm sure the men's are in the same boat. There really is no point in even talking to anyone or establishing a relationship if no one is really moral anyway. This society is evolving to be more selfish. There are exceptions but rare to find. Might as well be animals, oh wait we already are. Just bred and move on, no emotional attatchment, what we men want anyway.*** No, it really hasn't. If you look to history, our society has stayed relatively the same. Men don't just want to breed and move on btw. Maybe that's what YOU want but I know plenty of guys who truly are in love. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Stastics are just that, statistics, numbers,t hey arent always accurate and they dont reflect real life, real people or your life. There are more exceptions than youd believe. sometimes I get frustrated at humanity and people, but at the end of the day there are lots of good trustworthy people out there. Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Yeah, I agree. Just throwing that statistics out there. I'm sure the men's are in the same boat. There really is no point in even talking to anyone or establishing a relationship if no one is really moral anyway. This society is evolving to be more selfish. There are exceptions but rare to find. Might as well be animals, oh wait we already are. Just bred and move on, no emotional attatchment, what we men want anyway.*** Good luck! Of course, it might get a wee bit lonely not trusting anyone, not forming any relationships, and just being unhappy. You know what's really brave? Taking a risk. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Well, you cant make anothe woman pay for what another un-trustworthy woman did. Its not fair, and you will never find happiness that way. Gotta take a chance. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I think you should ask why trust anyone? We have no choice. What kind of life would you have distrusting everyone male or female. It is true female betrayal is rapidly approaching that of men but does that mean ALL should be painted with the same brush? No. Being a good judge of people is more important now than ever in our whole history............unfortunately. lost Link to comment
Lighting1 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Men are just as bad as women, if not worse. How many stories have you heard about kids growing up in single mother homes because their dad left. It's not women it's people in general. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Goodbye old American values, and hello Europe. Actually, we'd rather you stay in America with this attitude. Or, if you mean that American values have been warped by the European, I think you'll find that a lot of Europeans think the same, but in reverse. Link to comment
lifeiscash Posted April 9, 2009 Author Share Posted April 9, 2009 Why should anyone have to "trust"? If society is becoming more selfish as a whole, then I might as well go along with it and take what I want. I think people commit because of fear. Fear of losing another, fear of finances, fear of lonliness, fear of etc., you name it. You shouldn't need anyone. Trust your own instincts, not another. I'm not saying to give up on relationships altogether, but don't expect loyalty, mostly with these disturbing percentages. You also have to take in consideration that the other 40% doesn't account for transgenders, handicapped, and people of the same sexes. Yes they are out there so I'll limit it down to 35%. Take in consideration that some people are flat out not attractive who really have "no options" to cheat because they are too ugly, fat, or have a hairy mole on the side of their face, so they would have to remain loyal, I'll take that % down to 10%. There we go, we have a 10% chance to live the Hollywood life and live that perfect fairy tale. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 No one lives the "Hollywood life" and "perfect fairy tale"...if you're holding on to that dream, you'll wait a lifetime. Link to comment
lifeiscash Posted April 9, 2009 Author Share Posted April 9, 2009 No one lives the "Hollywood life" and "perfect fairy tale"...if you're holding on to that dream, you'll wait a lifetime. Sarcasm Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Hollywood and fairy tale romances are typically very unhealthy. Our society isn't becoming more selfish. In fact, it's become a lot more humane over the centuries in a lot of aspects. Trust no one and you'll end up a very unhappy man. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Sarcasm I wasn't trying to be sarcastic, just realistic..... Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Our society isn't becoming more selfish. In fact, it's become a lot more humane over the centuries in a lot of aspects. Completely true this. Link to comment
Tethys Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 It is okay, you don't have to trust us. But, there are some good women out there. However, living single for awhile helps, working on yourself. I had to do that for awhile as I did NOT trust men. Do what I did... take a break. Link to comment
Lighting1 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 It's not really healthy to not trust anyone and if anything that attitude makes you just as selfish. There are lots of great people out there that you can trust. The problem is knowing who you can trust and who you can't. Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Yeah, abolishing slavery, and women's right to vote have really contributed to the selfishness of society. I honestly just think it's because women know they don't have to put up with crap anymore. Link to comment
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